Sunday, February 27, 2011

The Only Play That Plays in The Theatre of the Consciousness is "Goldilocks," Part Three, The Conclusion

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Here, there is nothing that is believed, so there is no one here who wants you to believe anything, either. Here, the invitation is to be free of all that you have been programmed, conditioned, acculturated, and domesticated to believe so that you can be free, period.

Furthermore, for those who have developed a preference for any non-nisargan yoga or who prefer Traditional Advaita Vedanta, Neo-Advaita, Neo-Vedanta, or Pseudo Advaita: here you will only find the use of the Direct Path Method of teaching along with the Nisarga (Natural) Yoga.

Also, you will find here very few of the teachings offered by Maharaj in his earlier talks and far more of the message that he offered in his ultimate talks. Why? During his last years, he said of I AM THAT: "That book and whatever was expounded at that time was only relevant for that period. I am speaking differently today" and am "emphasizing different aspects." His final understanding, which was completely different from what he offered early on, is the basis of pointers here. Maharaj made clear at the end that the pointers in I AM THAT will take you to the midpoint of "the race"; only the pointers in his final talks point the way to "the finish line."

F.: The non-Realized masses will never stop suffering from the effects of the Goldilocks Syndrome of Duality, their minds always convincing them that they or their partners have "too little of this" or "too much of that."

In times like these when economic hardships prevail for most around the globe, some become desperate and sell out to the highest bidder. Such behavior had recently brought into consciousness a quote that my Cherokee Grandmother shared during the days I spent in her very modest home in the deep piney woods of East Texas:

"It is not necessary for eagles to become crows."
--Sitting Bull

F.: "I do not understand, Grandmother."

G.: "Value pride not at all but Self-Esteem above all. Forfeit that, Floyd, and you will end up being very, very poor."

I was contacted Monday by a woman who reported certain events in her marriage that she was tolerating, painful events that brought back into the consciousness those words from Grandmother about false pride, about Self-Esteem, about groveling like a crow rather than soaring like an eagle.

She shared that "under the influence of alcohol and the economic stress of having been laid off from his job, my husband has begun to hit me during our arguments."

She said that after he calms down and is ready for make-up sex, he tells her "those were just 'love taps'." His argument was that he could not become so emotional if he did not really love her. Right. What interesting spins on reality persons are able to fabricate. Consider the irony of the way that the Ultimate Sickness of the Goldilocks Syndrome played out with her:

There was a time when she was adjusting to the changes that came after a divorce, when she was struggling financially, when she no longer had the lifestyle to which she had become accustomed, when she finally moved beyond the emotionalism of that breakup, and when she began to long once more to be touched by a man. There was far "too little of that" ... far too little money ... far too little touching.

When she met the man to whom she is currently married, she was "a dream come true." He was a man on the prowl, and in such cases, what a dream it is to find a woman who is at that place where she is in a most vulnerable state, who is ready and able to allow an advantage to be played out by the prowler, who is once again "ready and willing to be touched by a man." And was he ever willing to accommodate that perceived need. And he owned his own building company. Double bonus!

For the prowler, what great fortune, he thought, to find a woman who is desperate for money and touching. "You want to be taken care of? Of course I can do that, as long as you want to touch and be touched. Oh yes! You have come to the right place." And touched by him she was. All of the heady emotional intoxication of "falling in love again" became her blindfold.

So, flooded by her emotions and belief that there was "too little touching" and "too many bills" and "too little money," the relationship raced ahead at the speed of a tsunami headed for a shoreline. Soon they were married, she having been so lost in the dream of the planet and so driven by her Goldilocks belief system that she became convinced that a "whirlwind" romance could somehow produce a "calm seas" kind of marriage.

So she was his dream come true at that moment. Now she has become what he mistakes for his nightmare. Now she cannot stand to be touched by him. As with Goldilocks, she once was being touched "too little." Now she is being touched "too much" (and "too hard"). In the past, he touched her "just right"; now he touches her "all wrong." When is she ever going to find one who touches her "just right all the time?"

You may be in the process of finding the one that can provide what is "just right" to lift the depression and melancholia, who can use wealth to support you, who can make you laugh and give you joy (as if those can manifest consistently while functioning under the influence of the manifested consciousness that drives ever-changing perceptions).

But if you enter into a relationship from a state of wanting, you will remain in want. If you enter into a relationship seeking someone to lift your depression and misery, then you will be depressed and miserable even in that relationship and (odds are, statistically) that you will leave that relationship still depressed and still miserable.

For most desperate persons, though, the course has been charted and they are determined to bring about the experiences that they are seeking, having no clue that it is not the longing for cake that makes the cake.

It is having the right ingredients to begin with and then being patient enough to allow the cake to begin to cook slowly at a not-too-hot temperature, to rise at its proper rate, to bake until all of the process has unfolded naturally and spontaneously.

Again, though, for most desperate persons, the course has been charted and they are determined to bring about either the experiences that they desire or an end to experiencing what they fear (and to bring it all about at break-neck speed). Such is the relative existence when being conducted under the influence of the consciousness that by its very nature is dualistic.

Yet change and flux and, yes, even chaos are all that can happen when living under the influence of the ever-in-motion consciousness that brings with it the ever-changing beliefs about there being "too little of this" and "too much of that." What most will miss is that - as with your Advaita journey - the peace can only come when the work of seeking goes;

that freedom from the disappointment of unmet desires can only come when the wanting goes; and that fear can only go with the arrival of the willingness to take the action required to alleviate the source of the fear.

Here, for nearly six years, the invitation has been to allow this speck of consciousness to "Blow the Still" so you might stop long enough to see clearly rather than race ahead blindly; has been the invitation to move away from chaos, not tolerate it;

has been the invitation to work for independence and freedom rather than settling for dependency and co-dependency; has been the invitation to soar, not grovel; has been the invitation to feast on the cake you earn and cook yourself rather than eat your culture's putrefying carrion to address the hunger generated by desires and fears:

"It is not necessary for eagles to become crows."

What shall it be? Completing the "journey" required to be the eagle that soars above it all and just witnesses it all so that it is apart from the nonsense rather than a part of the insanity? Or the crow, taking the easy way out, not entering into the hunt and walking the "path" but instead just eating the scraps and garbage that those in your culture toss your way?

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