Tuesday, May 10, 2011

AUTHENTICITY, Part Five

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As for Maharaj, you will find here some of his early pointers for beginners but some of his later pointers that are for seekers father along the "path." During his last years, he said of I AM THAT: "That book and whatever was expounded at that time was only relevant for that period. I am speaking differently today" and am "emphasizing different aspects." What he offered later differed considerably from his earlier talks, making clear that the pointers in I AM THAT will take you to the midpoint of "the race" but that his final talks point the way to "the finish line."

F.:[Continued from yesterday]

The essence of liberation is freedom from personality
(and also from childhood programming)

This was shared yesterday: "By the age of six, one's primary personality type will be set and that personality type - along with a host of other personas that will be assigned or adopted - will drive thoughts and words and deeds for the remainder of the relative existence."

Bruce Lipton in his book The Biology of Belief (no, Advaitin seekers need not read the entire book) reports that

** most of the subconscious programming of every person on the planet takes place from birth to six years of age; that

** the habits and beliefs that form the subconscious mind are implanted by the age of six; and that

** the brain is operating in the delta and theta brain wave states during those early childhood years, making a person susceptible to programming and to accepting even the craziest concepts as truth.

There are four categories of brainwaves, ranging from the most active to the least active. To understand Lipton's pointer about programming (and also to understand the way that adults usually function in a less-than-awake-and-aware condition) note the parallels between Advaita's points regarding the sleep state, the waking state, and the awake state and the corresponding brain wave counterparts that parallel those states:

A. When the brain is aroused and actively engaged in mental activities, it generates beta waves. These beta waves are the fastest of the four different brain waves, their frequency ranging from 15 to 40 cycles a second. A person in active conversation would be in beta. A debater would be in high beta. A person making a speech, or a teacher, or a talk show host would all be in beta when they are engaged in their work.

B. The next brain wave category in order of frequency is alpha. Where beta represents arousal, alpha represents non-arousal. Alpha brain wave frequencies range from 9 to 14 cycles per second. A person who has completed a task and sits down to rest is often in an alpha state. A person who takes time out to reflect or meditate is usually in an alpha state. A person who takes a break from a conference and walks in the garden is often in an alpha state.

C. In the next state, the theta brain wave state, the frequency range is normally between 5 and 8 cycles a second. A person who has taken time off from a task and begins to daydream is often in a theta brain wave state. Persons who are driving on a freeway and suddenly discover that they cannot recall the last five miles are often in a theta state. ("The Vision" shared on this site came when leaving the next state discussed - the delta state - and waking only enough to be in the theta state, which is when visions often come).

D. The final brain wave state is delta. Here the brain waves are of the slowest frequency, typically around a range of 1.5 to 4 cycles per second. (They never go down to zero because that would mean that you were brain dead.) Deep, dreamless sleep would take you to this lowest frequency, typically, 2 to 3 cycles a second.

Lipton noted that the first six years of childhood are spent mainly in the delta state or in the theta state. In the theta state, persons are never fully awake and aware, so programming is accepted readily. Naively, lies are accepted as truth; distortions are accepted as facts; "spins" are taken to be reality. The same applies to adults because most of them are spending their entire days in the theta state.

Lipton suggests that the subconscious controls 95% of the mind's activity and that whatever adults are doing happens only about 5% of the time from the fully-awake beta state of consciousness.

In Advaitin terms, 95% of the time, persons are talking in their sleep, walking about in their sleep, driving in their sleep, expressing perceptions that are total "spins" and / or distortions, and fooling themselves and others. Is it any wonder that so much "relationship joy" and "relationship misery" dominates the chaotic and ever-fluctuating relative existence of the non-Realized all around the globe?

Lipton likens the subconscious to a tape recorder that does not respond to commands. When persons are performing, the tape player (i.e., the subconscious mind), is turned on; however, persons cannot stop or start the tape player. Whatever is in the tape player will play and will unconsciously control thoughts and words and actions.

In Advaitin terms, whatever was placed in the tape player (the mind) via programming, conditioning, acculturation and domestication will be played back and will control persons unless the unblocked consciousness interrupts that process.

As a result, persons may believe that they are choosing their thoughts and words and actions, but, in fact, all of those are being driven by the internal tapes ... tapes which they do not even know are there but are playing nevertheless and are controlling them.

The Realized know that Lipton's conclusions are accurate, that

** the subconscious mind controls everything that is thought and said and done and felt almost 95% of the time; that

** persons really have no clue about how the mind operates and what is stored therein, even as the non-Realized believe that they are choosing their thoughts and words and deeds; and that

** the fears and desires of personas - products of the dysfunctionalism which every child is exposed to early on - drive persons unconsciously; and that

** persons are moving throughout the day, not in the fully awake and aware beta state, but most often in the theta state.

What possible chance can there be for authenticity - for finding the Authentic Self - when those conditions exist?

The "stupidity" and "learned ignorance" and "insanity" and "lack of authenticity" among adults which Maharaj referenced were planted during the childhood when the theta state (the not-fully-awake-and-awake state) was typical.

During their teenager years, persons begin to see how totally insane are the thoughts and words and deeds of most of the adults around them; yet when teens try to rebel against the stupidity and ignorance and insanity and inauthenticity, they are usually squashed (the Type Four Rebel being the one possible exception that stubbornly fights on against the odds and against the nonsense).

The irony is that, once the light that tries to shine during the teen years is extinguished, then persons move back into the child's theta state and stay there throughout the day and throughout their adult existence.

They will be driven by the content of the subconscious mind (where all of their lies and concepts and beliefs and personalities are stored alongside all of the other fiction that that take to be fact). From there, they will walk about in a theta-like state ... thinking nonsense, believing nonsense, talking nonsense, and behaving in nonsensical ways.

That is how the Ultimate Sickness came to be, that is what the Ultimate Sickness looks like when manifested, and that is the Sickness that will control every aspect of the relative existence of the sick, sleepwalking, sleep-talking masses as they move about most often in a theta state of semi-consciousness.

From there, the theta-level sleepwalking masses will engage in years of relationship joys and relationship sufferings, ignoring their patterns which show that whatever gives one pleasure will eventually give one misery and that whatever gives one the greatest pleasure will eventually give one the greatest misery.

Maharaj spoke of the love-to-hate cycles that characterize most relationships which will more often than not evolve from the highest high that can exist to the lowest of low's that result in hate-inducing, relative disasters (all affirmed by statistics involving breakups, divorces, hurt, pain, misery, and relationship-related assaults and murders, ad infinitum).

All of the initial conclusions drawn during the "falling in love" stage will be driven by childhood desires and fears, will be reached during a theta state of near unconsciousness, and will be rooted (95% of time) in unconscious beliefs and concepts that typify a child's lack of awareness. The end result most often is misery and suffering unless Realization happens and allows persons to wake up enough to escape the clutches of those typical cycles.

Otherwise, relationships will continue to be formed from a near-sleep state wherein images are taken to be real and where whatever one is initially attracted to in persons will later be found to be their most unattractive traits of all.

As a result, one can claim at first that "so-and-so is such a generous provider" but later complain that "he thinks he owns me and can jealously control me and can demand that I be available at his beck and call just because he pays my bills, and on some level, I feel cheapened when I go along with the game"; claiming that

"she is so calm and serene and never overreacts" but later complaining that "she is so emotionally unavailable and so totally devoid of any ability to feel and so shutdown that she could not be any colder if she were living on an iceberg in the North Atlantic"; claiming that

"he loves me so much that he calls me all day long" later becomes "he is so possessive and so eaten up with his obsessive-compulsive disorder that he's driving me crazy - I can't get an hour of uninterrupted peace"; or

"he loves me so much that he wants to be with me all of the time," later complaining that "he is controlling and suffocating and childishly dependent and refuses to give me any space and wants to make me co-dependent with him"; claiming that

"he has such a wonderful work ethic" but then complaining later that "he's a workaholic who is never here for me or the children"; or that

"he is the sexiest man alive, a truly great lover" but complaining later, "he just uses me for his selfish pleasure and is a sex maniac and cheats on me constantly."

How - with such dualistic, unstable, ever-changing perceptions - could any authenticity and stability ever be found? They cannot. They will not.

Thus, the relative existence is a chain of Subject-Object connections and broken connections, the Oneness and True Love seldom being understood at all, much less sought. The result is a relative existence that is not unlike a chaotic, unstable, ever-fluctuating roller coaster ride, dominated by highs and lows but providing no lasting stability in between.

So it is, but so it need not be.

[See "Services" at floydhenderson.com if you are interested in making arrangements to use the enneagram tool as a part of your efforts to be liberated.]

Please enter the silence of contemplation. (To be continued)

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Monday, May 09, 2011

AUTHENTICITY, Part Four

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As for Maharaj, you will find here some of his early pointers for beginners but some of his later pointers that are for seekers father along the "path." During his last years, he said of I AM THAT: "That book and whatever was expounded at that time was only relevant for that period. I am speaking differently today" and am "emphasizing different aspects." What he offered later differed considerably from his earlier talks, making clear that the pointers in I AM THAT will take you to the midpoint of "the race" but that his final talks point the way to "the finish line."

F.:[Continued from yesterday]

"The essence of liberation is freedom from personality."

Authenticity can only happen in the absence of personality. True, Maharaj did say that there will always be a vestige of one's primary type. He was a Type Four, the seeker of authenticity, explaining the fact that he spent his entire existence in the search for the Authentic Self and then guiding others to the same. That was a result of the remaining speck of his primary type, which was set up in his earliest days.

By the age of six, one's primary personality type will usually be set, and that personality type - along with a host of other personas that will be assigned or adopted - will drive thoughts and words and deeds for the remainder of the relative existence.

Most will move throughout the entire existence without a clue that personality - along with each personality type's fears and desires - are controlling every aspect of their existence.

That will remain the case unless one comes to understand the way that personality works, the way that it robs persons of the ability to choose, and then finds a teacher or a counselor to guide them to liberation from the influence of personality.

What are the means available to teachers who guide persons to liberation?

OPTION I.

Maybe 5% of the time, Maharaj chose a non-duality topic for discussion, but most often, he invited visitors to share. Never did he assume that what was going to be shared would point the other seekers in the loft to truth.

Instead, the strategy was to (A) allow persons to reveal if any degree of authenticity at all was present (revealed if their words showed certain degrees of being awake and conscious and aware) or most often to (B) reveal where on "the path" that particular seeker might be and what personas were driving that seeker.

Then Maharaj would offer pointers that could allow the seeker to see which aspects of personality were operating, followed by pointers to the next step on the "journey."

OPTION II.

Remember that Maharaj claimed that someday science would advance to the degree that it would support all of the non-duality, Advaita teachings; thus, the process of liberating a seeker from personality can be enhanced by use of a scientifically-based tool called "the enneagram personality analysis."

So:

1. Realized teachers such as Maharaj can identify when persons are trapped in personality and can identify, after hearing only a few words or facts about that seeker, which persona or personas are driving any particular thoughts or words that are being expressed;

2. trained ennegram coaches or teachers can do the same;

3. empirical evidence here shows that those who combine Advaita's teachings regarding personality with the enneagram's scientific understanding of personality often find release from personality's influence more readily.

In terms of personality and liberation, some reject the results of an enneagram test completely, dismissing it as "cold reading" as readily as they write off the nonsense of astrological readings (in spite of the scientific and empirical evidence that supports the results revealed via enneagram testing).

Some believe that, when certain predictions about one's personality are offered without seeing that person's actual test results, the forecasts cannot possibly uncover anything about a subject with any certainty; however, find one that understands personality and the enneagram thoroughly and you will find this:

As with a Realized Advaitin teacher, the one that understands both personality and the enneagram can hear a few words or watch a few actions and know exactly what personas are driving an individual.

If you share what a subject has done in terms of earning or gaining money; if you share a few statements that a subject makes about himself / herself; and if you share a few comments revealing the subject's "philosophy" or "world view" ...

... then you might be surprised to find how accurately the one versed in personality and the enneagram can "peg" that person's primary type and other personality drivers.

It comes as easily to one versed in the enneagram as it did to Maharaj when he was able to peg one who was trapped in personality, in personality-driven fears and desires, and in the thoughts and words and actions associated with various assumed personas.

Of course the full test results will reveal the full personality picture, but even without test scores, the one versed in the enneagram can understand a great deal about persons and their hidden motivators.

For example, at the beginning of the last presidential election in the U.S. when it was determined that McCain and Obama would represent the two major parties, a visitor asked if there were any clues about their personalities that would show how they would govern.

The reply:

Floyd: "Explain what you know about their backgrounds."

Visitor: "McCain is a fourth generation military man; married a beautiful swimsuit model; she was in a car wreck and disfigured; left her and married an attractive, wealthy woman and owns either 6 or 8 or 11 or 13 houses - he's not sure; has a campaign slogan of 'Country First'; sang a song about bombing Iran and laughed; acts like he knows it all."

F.: "And Obama?"

V.: "He seems to want to make the world a better place; had a chance after graduation to get a high-paying job but worked as a community organizer in the poor sections of Chicago assisting people there; his weakness to me seems to be that he allows his opponents to attack him without fighting back - he just smiles - he needs to stand up and fight."

Even without test scores for either candidate, the one versed in the enneagram could see a great deal:

F.: "So, McCain is a Type Six 'Loyalist' (with his 'Country First' slogan), who has a need for security and wants to be taken care of and wants some power source available (also Type Six traits, and is thus one in a long line of four generations of military men) and would have a propensity to fight first and bomb first and only ask questions later; he has a Type Seven addictive wing ('not sure how many houses he owns but probably more than eleven'); he has a Type Five wing (with its 'Know It All' mentality); and he is connected to the Type Three so he will care about looks and appearances, requiring a good-looking woman on his arm to enhance his image."

V.: "And Obama?"

F.: "Obama is functioning as a Type One 'Reformer' with a Type Two 'Helper' wing and a Type Nine 'Peacemaker / Avoider of Conflict' wing."

The one versed in the enneagram has to smile when so many now complain that Obama tries too hard to entice members of the opposing party to compromise (a willingness rooted in the Type Nine) rather than "stand up and fight." It was all obvious from the very beginning to any that understand the enneagram, and no set of scores was required for one trained in enneagram-based personality analysis to know readily which personas drive Obama and to predict accurately how he would govern.

Personality - and personality defects and disorders - are that obvious to those versed in personality and the enneagram. Liberation from personality can be happen when a seeker that is truly ready meets a competent teacher that is Fully Realized and / or one versed in the use of the enneagram tool as a means for identifying and being rid of the personas that are controlling their thoughts and words and deeds.

[See "Services" at floydhenderson.com if you are interested in making arrangements to use the enneagram tool as a part of your efforts to be liberated.]

Please enter the silence of contemplation. (To be continued)

Sunday, May 08, 2011

AUTHENTICITY, Part Three

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As for Maharaj, you will find here some of his early pointers for beginners but some of his later pointers that are for seekers father along the "path." During his last years, he said of I AM THAT: "That book and whatever was expounded at that time was only relevant for that period. I am speaking differently today" and am "emphasizing different aspects." What he offered later differed considerably from his earlier talks, making clear that the pointers in I AM THAT will take you to the midpoint of "the race" but that his final talks point the way to "the finish line."

F.: The end of dependence and co-dependence - and the beginning of true freedom and peace - comes with authenticity, and only authenticity can provide access to the various forms of essence that can serve as a foundation on which independence, liberation, freedom and peace can be built.

The essence of liberation is freedom from personality (and, thus, freedom from being driven blindly by fears and desires). Maharaj offered the same pointer, but conversely, by saying that "self-limitation is the very essence of personality."

"Liberation," "Enlightenment," and "Realization" are not three different terms pointing to one condition. Each points to a different condition on the "journey": "liberation" comes with freedom from being driven blindly by the hidden agendas of personality; various "enlightenments" can come along the way on "the path"; "Realization" awaits at the end.

It was noted earlier that "of the nine basic personality types that exist, only one has a propensity for seeking the Authentic Self, specifically, the Type Four (which was Maharaj's type)"

and that

"Of all of the persons on the planet, only 1/2 of 1% are Type Fours; therefore, there is in that fact an explanation for Maharaj's predictions about how few will ever seek, much less find."

It was also noted that "in order to know the Self, one must find all of the false selves that are blocking awareness of the True Self; similarly, to find authenticity and The Authentic Self, one must understand what non-authenticity is and what the not-Authentic-Self is." That portrait of non-authenticity will be shared today.

No tool provides liberation from personality more effectively than the enneagram. Advaitins can talk about the plight of personality; the enneagram uncovers the manifestations and effects of personality in black and white. It not only exposes the false selves / personalities that unconsciously drive thoughts and words and actions but quantifies them with a numeric scale that reveals exactly the degree of influence that each personality is exerting throughout one's relative existence.

In terms of "finding authenticity and The Authentic Self" by way of "understanding what the not-Authentic-Self is," the enneagram personality identification and analysis system offers ...

... a means of identifying all of the "not-You's"

and

... a specific portraiture of "the not-Authentic-Self."

The list of specific "not-You's" that are exposed via the results of enneagram testing include "The Judge" / "The Perfectionist" / "The Reformer of the World"; "The Helper / Rescuer"; "The Knowledge Seeker / The Avoider of Everything";

"The Fearful One Seeking Security and Protection"; "The Escapist"; "The Controller"; and "The Avoider Who Wants to Be Taken Care of and Who Does Not Want to Be Bothered or Disturbed."

As for the "specific portraiture of the not-Authentic-Self," that is provided via an understanding of the Type Three Personality which is the antithesis of an Authentic Self. Again, "in order to know the Self, one must find all of the false selves that are blocking awareness of the True Self," and the Type Three is the epitome of inauthenticity.

[Note that while Threes are the "poster children" for inauthenticity, the "Three" is merely a personality type, so nothing here is a "personal attack" on Threes but is, instead, a witnessing of the characteristics of those trapped in the epitome of the "not-Self" whose every thought and word and deed provides concrete evidence of what non-authenticity looks like.]

Type Three's are most concerned with image, the very basis of the Ultimate Sickness that the teachings try to address. They build an image, work to maintain an image, want everyone to see their image, want all to believe that the image being presented is real, and actually believe themselves that their image is genuine.

They do not spend time visiting the stage in the Theater of the Lie as do other types; Three's actually live on that stage (when they are not living in the mirror in their dressing room). They are consummate actors / actresses, accomplished and skilled and talented at fooling others and themselves.

They are more attractive and charming and ambitious and competent than most in their cultures, all traits that feed their egos and attract the audiences that they must have to feed their Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

They can act diplomatically to try to gain what they want - and what they are convinced they are entitled to - but if that does not produce the results they seek, they can turn in an instant and use heartless words and actions to beat down any who disagree or interfere with their agenda. Their tongues are the knives they take to a fight.

Maximizing their ability to charm and control, they will function as the chameleons of the enneagram. To inspire you to accept them and their agenda and to inspire you to admire them and praise them, they will pretend to adopt your values and beliefs - assuming whatever "color" they are next to so you will feel comfortable next to them. This is part of the picture that shows what non-authenticity looks like.

Threes are the soybeans of the enneagram. Soybeans take on the flavor of whatever food they are placed next to and are, therefore, valued as "filler" or "extenders" when blended with other products. Threes operate that way in taking on the flavor of whatever / whoever they are next too in order to gain approval and acceptance and whatever else they desire.

If they are speaking to one playing the role of "The Helper," they will speak in ways that suggest they are helpers and in ways that endorse helping. With their excellent ability to parrot, to anticipate what others want to hear, and to say what will impress others, then it can be seen that if they are speaking to a Realized teacher, they will appear to be the most Realized seeker of all;

if they are speaking to one trapped in the role of "The Caregiver / The Caretaker," the Three will appear to be the most caring of all; if they are speaking to one interested in authenticity, they will sound more authentic than anyone has ever sounded; if they are with one who can be manipulated with sex, they will be the sexiest of all.

[One female Three was programmed by her father to "use your good looks to find a man to take care of you" and by her mother to "use love (a.k.a., 'sex' in this case) as a tool to manipulate men and they will give you anything and everything you want." For her, that "My-Life's-Plan-Is-A-Man" method has indeed attracted men with money who have been willing to provide for her all of life. This is another part of the picture that shows what non-authenticity looks like. By the way, with more women entering the workforce, more and more men are playing a similar game.]

Being masters at fabricating a false image, Three's become the kings and queens not only of deception but of self-deception, so when they "put a spin" on their actions, not only do they convince others to buy into their distorted version of truth and reality;

they also accept as absolute truth and absolute reality the distorted versions of the facts that they hear coming unconsciously from their mouths. Thus is their ability to whitewash their actions and to make their propensity for using charitable or vulnerable people appear to be something other than manipulation and exploitation and control.

Behind the image-making that produces a person / persona who seems confident (often to the point of seeming arrogant as well) is an inferiority complex; as a result, Threes will be driven to achieve and succeed at levels far beyond those of their peers, making them highly competitive - and most willing to use others - in their effort to feel valuable and to appear admirable.

And they have an uncanny knack for defining their "value" in ways that save face (that saves their image) and that hides the fact that they are exploiting others while suggesting that others are receiving equal or greater benefit from what they are offering, acting as if they are giving as much as, or more than, they are receiving.

Their narcissism will drive them to surround themselves with an entourage - or, even better in their opinion, an audience - of hero worshippers who will offer the attention and the affirmation that their egos need. This provides another glimpse at what non-authenticity looks like.

The Enneagram Institute completes the portraiture of what Threes (non-Authentics) look like after years of living the lie finally takes its toll (and what the end result of years of inauthenticity will produce):

Threes ...

* want to impress others with their superiority;

* constantly promote themselves, making themselves sound better than they really are;

* are narcissistic, with grandiose notions about themselves and their talents and their value and their inflated worth to others;

* are exhibitionistic and seductive (in fact, highly seductive, able to seduce those who have otherwise been beyond seduction for years or decades);

* are arrogant and contemptuous and jealous of others, a result of their competitive nature;

* are exploitative and opportunistic, willing to take advantage of the vulnerable and the generous in order to benefit financially or otherwise;

* feel entitled;

* are willing to do "whatever it takes" to preserve the illusion of their superiority and to guarantee their success and (especially) their financial security;

* are devious and deceptive and untrustworthy and delusional;

* are relentless, obsessive about destroying whatever reminds them of their own shortcomings and failures; and

* can become psychopathic.

If you want to know what authenticity is not, review the traits above. If one is truly in touch with The Authentic Self, then there are no "others" to use or abuse or take advantage of; there are no "others" that will be exploited for one's own personal pleasure or gratification;

there are no self-deceptive "spins" placed on the facts and on the otherwise clear evidence that is laid out for one to see if only objectivity were present; there are no "others" that are thought to deserve to be deceived in order to gain; there is no entrapment in deception or self-deception; there are no distorted views of reality;

there is no buying into the types of lies that Threes (and anyone else trapped in their persona-identifications) will tell themselves in order to convince themselves and others that they are acting with honor in all cases.

If you would understand the symptoms of the Ultimate Sickness, understand the way that Threes (and the way that all non-Authentics) unconsciously function; see the pain and misery that their deceptions generate for themselves and others;

see how their seduction pulls the vulnerable - or the similarly seductive and egotistical - into their games as they use their masterful skill at playing others; then see how they play themselves more than anyone.

If that does not inspire one to sincerely seek the Ultimate Medicine, then illness will continue, and it will continue to be spread.

[If you want to find your type and spend two one-hour sessions by telephone or Skype with Floyd explaining the results, visit www.floydhenderson.com]

Please enter the silence of contemplation. (To be continued)

Saturday, May 07, 2011

AUTHENTICITY, Part Two

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As for Maharaj, you will find here some of his early pointers for beginners but some of his later pointers that are for seekers father along the "path." During his last years, he said of I AM THAT: "That book and whatever was expounded at that time was only relevant for that period. I am speaking differently today" and am "emphasizing different aspects." What he offered later differed considerably from his earlier talks, making clear that the pointers in I AM THAT will take you to the midpoint of "the race" but that his final talks point the way to "the finish line."

F.: Yesterday, reference was made to the fact that there are many types of essence that can manifest:

the essence of food is Consciousness;

the essence of liberation is freedom from personality;

the essence of the Absolute is Awareness;

the essence of this existence is knowing Oneness (True Love) and Wisdom;

the essence of Oneness is a "no-relationship relationship," the transcendence of the false belief in two (in an "A" and a "B") alongside the understanding of "Advaita" ... of "not-two";

the essence of sex is Love / love; that is, the Absolute, non-physical, noumenal Oneness overlaid on a relative, phenomenal act of physicality;

the essence of beingness via Realization;

the essence of authenticity via Realization;

and

the essence of Full Realization, which is independence, freedom, happiness, joy, bliss.

First, it has been noted here before that the Am-ness and the physical brain are rooted in the elements; that consciousness manifests via the elements; but that consciousness and awareness, ultimately, are rooted in the Absolute.

Yet if it were not for plants - which become plant food for humans and animals - the consciousness could not manifest and could not be transferred to human and animal bodies.

Maharaj noted that beyond the variety of appearances and characteristics that plants have, there is a singular commonality, namely, they are "identical in essence." Yet the ultimate essence is even beyond that, beyond the consciousness, even.

He said that " ... the totally objective and the totally subjective are identical, both in substance and essence"; thus, I AM THAT; I AM.

Without the facilitation of the plants, though, the AM-ness could not be. The plants take non-usable energy and convert it into a form of energy that can be used by humans and other living beings.

To that end, the essence of the plant food is that usable energy and the conscious-energy which manifests within the plant. By consuming the food, the essence is also consumed, allowing plant cells to convert into a variety of human or animal cells which supply a body and which sustain a body that, in turn, functions - at least temporarily - as a body-cum-consciousness.

Yet the manifested consciousness is only the penultimate essence of the Absolute, not the ultimate essence of the Absolute. The ultimate essence of the Absolute is Awareness.

Maharaj said, "Reflected awareness, the sense ‘I am aware’ is the witness, while pure awareness is the essence of reality." It has been noted here that there are two levels of witnessing: Subject-Object Witnessing and Pure Witnessing. The totally unblocked consciousness allows for pure witnessing, and the True Self can be understood to be, not "the witness" and not even "The Pure Witness," but merely Pure Witnessing, period.

Both the unblocked consciousness and the "I am aware" version of awareness can be said at the early level of the teaching to function as "a witness" (if "a witness" is not assumed as an identity).

At the purest level, though, the ultimate essence of the Absolute is not even the unblocked consciousness; it is instead pure awareness which is also the ultimate essence of reality.

Please enter the silence of contemplation. (To be continued)

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