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BELIEFS AND FEARS: The Fathers and Mothers of Foolishness

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BELIEFS AND FEARS: 

The Fathers and Mothers of Foolishness

BEING FREE OF THE EFFECTS OF BRAINWASHING AND INDOCTRINATION

There are six processes discussed here which result in a fiction-packed, BS-filled, detrimental mind superseding the influence of the natural brain in terms of controlling person’s thoughts and words and actions:

programming, conditioning, domestication, acculturation, brainwashing, and indoctrination. What version of non-duality is recommended here in order to reverse the effects of those processes? An un-learning and un-teaching version.

Today the focus will be on undoing the effects of brainwashing and indoctrination, a task addressed by Hanan Parvez in his article, “How to Undo Brainwashing.” While some of his pointers are outside the parameters of the non-dual understanding as presented here, plenty of his pointers are spot on.

To quote him:

Brainwashing is the process of repeatedly indoctrinating a person with a new set of beliefs. It’s helpful to think of brainwashing in terms of identity. When someone is brainwashed, they ditch their old identity and acquire a new one.

The indoctrinated beliefs that support the person’s new identity change their thoughts and behaviors. The person is transformed.

We’re all brainwashed in one way or the other by our society. It’s the process of socialization we all go through to better fit into our culture.

Brainwashing is essentially acquiring beliefs without critical thought. Children can’t think for themselves and need to be brainwashed to turn them into functional members of society. But once a person becomes an adult, it becomes more and more important that they test the validity of their beliefs.

Adults who’re not critical of their beliefs are vulnerable to abuse and exploitation. Those who go through the stage of individuation during their teenage years and develop a healthy sense of self have a stable level of self-esteem.

This is not to say that those who’ve developed a strong identity for themselves can’t be brainwashed. Certain life events can make even the most stable people vulnerable to brainwashing.

The Brainwashing Process

In this article, when I mention brainwashing, I’m talking about an adult who suddenly becomes someone else via brainwashing. Brainwashing is usually associated with abusers and cults. Following are the agents that frequently engage in brainwashing:

Abusive parents and spouses

Cult leaders

Psychics

Radical preachers

Secret societies

Revolutionaries

Dictators

Mass media

People brainwash so they can gain power over, control, use, and exploit the brainwashed.

Not all can be brainwashed equally. Some people are more vulnerable to brainwashing. Sometimes, certain events occur that make people especially prone to brainwashing.

One may have developed a strong sense of self that rests on a volatile foundation. This is true for most people who strongly identify with their jobs, relationships, and material possessions.

So, when a crisis happens and they lose their jobs, relationships, or possessions, it leaves a gaping hole in their identity. They suffer from an identity crisis.

When someone goes through an identity crisis, they’re desperate for a new identity. They become vulnerable to brainwashing because it promises them a new identity.

People develop their identities via socialization. Identity formation is therefore a social thing. People seek to develop an identity that will be acceptable to their ingroups.

This is why group psychology is such a key feature of brainwashing. Almost always, when a person is brainwashed, they leave their previous group (and related identity) to adopt a new group (and related identity).

Brainwashers carry out their brainwashing in the following steps:

1. Isolating the target

If the target is lost and already going through a crisis, it’s likely they’ve separated themselves from their own group, at least mentally. The brainwasher isolates them physically as well by taking them to a different location and asking them to cut all contact from their previous group.

2. Breaking down the target

The brainwasher or abuser does what [he or she] can to completely destroy the target’s previous identity. They’ll make fun of the way the target has been living their life up until now. They’ll mock their previous ideologies and group affiliations.

To prevent any resistance and destroy whatever self-esteem is left in the target, they’ll often humiliate, embarrass, and torture the target.

3. Promising a new identity

The target is now ready to be shaped the way the brainwasher wants to shape them. The brainwasher promises them a new identity that will ‘transform’ their life. The brainwasher invites the target into his or her group, where other members have also been transformed.

This preys on the target’s fundamental human need for an identity seen as desirable by the group to which they belong.

[For an example of the above in practice, study the way religious or spiritual groups handle new targets. AA, for example, provides evidence all of the above methods.]

4. Rewarding the target for joining

Cult members celebrate when they recruit a new member to give them a sense of accomplishment. The target feels they’ve done something worthwhile. Often, the brainwashing group will give the recruit a new name that’s in alignment with their newly adopted identity.

Signs of a brainwashed person

If you see most of the following signs, there’s a good chance they’ve been brainwashed.

They’re no longer themselves. They’ve turned into someone else.

Obsessed with their new beliefs, group, and the group leader, they can’t stop talking about these.

[There’s a] strong attachment to their new beliefs. They’ll constantly tell you how you’re wrong about everything. They act like they’ve found ‘the answer’.

[They’ll] follow the group leader unthinkingly, sometimes to their own detriment. But they can’t see that they’re being harmed.

How to undo brainwashing

If a target has been deeply brainwashed, undoing brainwashing can be immensely difficult. How long it takes to undo brainwashing will depend on the depth of brainwashing.

Beliefs solidify over time and are harder to break. The earlier you can undo someone’s brainwashing, the better.

Following is the step-by-step approach you can take to reverse a person’s brainwashing:

1. Isolate them from their cult

As long as they stay in their group, they’ll keep reinforcing their identity and beliefs. So, the first step is to remove them from their group. Our beliefs require support from our environment.

When the target is isolated or placed in a different environment, their mind can take a break and give itself a chance to re-evaluate things.

2. Present yourself as an ingroup

Ironically, the methods to undo brainwashing look a lot like brainwashing itself. It’s because the mind works how it works. We can’t escape the rules of the mind.

Presenting yourself as an ingroup means you show the targets that you’re on their side. If you try to convert them right out of the gate, they’ll resist you and think of you as the outgroup, i.e., the enemy.

You can show them you’re on their side by being non-judgmental, non-defensive, compassionate, and respectful. You don’t want to give them any reason to resist you.

3. Poke holes into their beliefs

You don’t want to blast through their beliefs by telling them how wrong and ridiculous they are. That approach rarely works and makes them defensive.

Instead, you want to ask them questions, show genuine curiosity. Ask them questions about what they believe with a mindset of “Let’s deconstruct these ideas together”. As you do this, make sure you point out the flaws in their convictions in a non-attacking manner.

This ‘death by a thousand cuts’ approach will slowly weaken their beliefs. Do it repeatedly to plant the seeds of doubt in their mind.

4. Show them how they’ve been brainwashed

When you’re poking holes into their convictions, show them that their beliefs have no logical basis. Tell them they’ve accepted the ideas of their cult without critical thought.

As you do this, it’s important to separate them from their beliefs. You don’t want to attack them, only their beliefs.

Instead of saying:

“You’re so naïve for having fallen into this trap”

say:

“Can you see how you’ve been brainwashed by X? Don’t worry, we can reverse it together. We can work through it.”

This communicates that they’re separate from their beliefs. If they acquired those beliefs, they can also ditch them.

Your goal is to appeal to their need for being rational. You show them that the way they developed their beliefs was anything but rational.

5. Show them the MO of other brainwashers

At this point, if they’re starting to question their beliefs, you can push them further by showing the modus operandi - and exposing the agenda of - brainwashers. Tell them stories and show them clips of cults who brainwashed and harmed people.

This solidifies the idea in their mind that they were influenced like many others and can get back on track.

While you do this, you’re planting the idea in their mind that the brainwasher is their enemy, i.e., the outgroup.

6. Restore their previous identity

You know you’ve successfully reversed the brainwashing if they experience an identity crisis. We experience an identity crisis any time we drop a major identity. They may feel lost, cry, or be angry.

Your task at this point is to gently restore their previous identity. Talk to them about their previous self - how they were before the brainwashing. While you do this, make sure you communicate that you and everyone else liked the previous self very much.

Tell them the thoughts they had, the opinions they held, and the things they used to do. This will help them settle in nicely into their previous identity.

Note that once a person is brainwashed, [he or she] may not be able to completely return to their previous self. They don’t have to.

They only need to drop the negative aspects of their indoctrinated beliefs and brainwashed identity. They can safely keep the harmless aspects of the brainwashing, and incorporate those into their previous self.

7. Update their identity

Explain to them how their brainwasher preyed on their weak identity and a lack of self-worth.

This will not only pave the way for a healthy level of self-esteem but also inoculate them from future brainwashing.

To be continued.

Please enter the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

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"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

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"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

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teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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