Saturday, October 05, 2019

HOW TO (AND WHAT TO) REALIZE

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HOW TO (AND WHAT TO) REALIZE

To continue with the discussion of how to and what to realize, consider the result of completing the four-step "journey":

Y. No Frustrating Unmet Desires and No Debilitating Fears

How can completion of the first four steps on “the path” eliminate frustrating unmet desires and debilitating fears? Easily.

Since all frustrating unmet desires and debilitating fears are rooted in one or more personality identifications / ego-states / false roles, then if belief in personality identifications / ego-states / false roles are eliminated, so too shall frustrating unmet desires and debilitating fears end.

Post-realization and post-freedom-from-belief-in-false-identities, nothing remains that prefers either an extension of the manifestation nor an end to the manifestation. It's called functioning from a position of neutrality. No desires; no fears.

Enjoyment certainly happens though nothing is desired. Nothing is feared since there is nothing to register fear. The consciousness functions from a position of neutrality, knowing that if persons are trapped in seeking the applause of the village, they must also be prepared to accept the scorn of the town as well.

No “good” label is being sought and no “bad” label is being avoided. All is neutral, and all persons can reach that position of neutrality via the realization which manifests if the first four steps are all completed thoroughly.

What is the personality / desire-fear connection?

Years ago I was in The Netherlands and while there spent a week studying the enneagram methodology with Russ Hudson, considered internationally to be one of the leading - if not the top – scholar on the subject matter. I credit him in the book LIBERATION (Attaining Freedom from Personality Via Realization) with explaining how personality identifications generate desires and fears. 


The following explanations expose the link between (a) personality assumption and (b) how that leads to unmet desires and paralyzing fears.

Among the nine basic ennegram personality types, the first type identifies as The Perfectionist, The Critic, The Judge:

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
The Type One’s BASIC FEAR is being corrupt or evil or defective
The Type One’s BASIC DESIRE is to be good

The Personality Type Two identifies as the Helper (who actually helps in order to try to make everyone love her or him in an effort to compensate for the perception that too little love was received during childhood, especially from the “father figure”):

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
The Type Two’s BASIC FEAR is the fear of not being loved
The Type Two’s BASIC DESIRE is to be loved

The Personality Type Three functions as The Performer, The Achiever, The Image Maker, The Inauthentic One, The Admiration and Applause Seeker, and The Narcissist:

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
The Type Three’s BASIC FEAR is the fear of being worthless
The Type Three’s BASIC DESIRE is to feel valuable

The Personality Type Four identifies as The Romantic, The Individualist, The Rebel and, if awake, The Intuitive, Authentic One:

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
The Type Four’s BASIC FEAR is the fear of having no identity
The Type Four’s BASIC DESIRE is to find The Authentic Self

 The Personality Type Five identifies as The Investigator, The Knowledge Seeker, The Knower (or, The Know-It-All):

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
The Type Five’s BASIC FEAR is the fear of being overwhelmed by reality
The Type Five’s BASIC DESIRE is to be competent and knowledgeable

Personality Type Sixes present as The Loyalist, The Dependent One, The Co-Dependent One, The Entitled One, The One Seeking Caretakers / Providers:

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
The Type Six has a BASIC FEAR of having no support or guidance
The Type Six has a BASIC DESIRE to have support and guidance

[Note: Type Sixes make up 50% of the population on the planet; Type Fours make up ½ of 1% on the planet.]

The Personality Type Seven identifies as The Adventurer, The Enthusiast, The Fun Seeker or, at the extreme, The Hell Raiser or The Addict or The (Unsuccessful) Avoider of Suffering and Pain:

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
The Type Seven has a BASIC FEAR of being trapped, deprived or in pain (be it mental, emotional, or physical
The Type Seven has a BASIC DESIRE to be free, to have the “need” for exciting or enjoyable activities fulfilled, and to avoid all pain (be it mental, emotional, or physical)

Personality Type Eights identify as The Boss, The Challenger, The Asserter, The Control Freak (or, at the extreme, The Sociopath or The Psychopath):

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
Type Eights have a BASIC FEAR of being harmed, violated, used or controlled by others
Type Eights have a BASIC DESIRE to protect themselves, to gain control of their lives, to use others for their benefit, and to control all other persons

The Personality Type Nine identifies as The Indifferent One, The Avoider of Having His or Her “Personal” Peace Interfered With, or The Sloth:

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE
Type Nines have a BASIC FEAR of loss and of separation (and of not being taken care of)
Type Nines have a BASIC DESIRE for continuity and for “peace of mind” (and for reaping the benefits of their perceived entitlement and being taken care of)

Add to the above the fact that each of those personality types brings with it a host of personality disorders; that the assumption of many other (multiple) personalities is commonplace; that persons over the years may well assume another 60 or 70 or 80 false identities in addition the nine basic types which always manifest; and that all of those types can bring disorders which can disintegrate into cases of neuroses and serious psychoses

and then

it can be understood why sages for ages have made the point that the assignment or assumption of false identifications has long been the bane of humanity.

To be continued.
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 Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns. 

THE EXPLANATION 

If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence. 

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to." 

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly"). 

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part. 

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on: 

"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within" 
--Yeshu'a (Jesus) 

and 

"Heaven and earth shall fade away." 
--Yeshu'a (Jesus) 

and 

"Heaven and hell are not geographic places 
but are states of mind, nothing more than 
concepts dreamed up by men." 
--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell." 
--Pope Francis, the current pope 
in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari, 
a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record 
teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium. 

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present. 

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why? 

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships? 

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.) 

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play. 

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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