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ENTERING INTO "THE CHILD IGNORANCE STAGE" OR "THE CHILD NO-KNOWING STATE" 


The Relative Freedom of Reaching the Fourth of Seven Steps, Part “C” 
(What to realize about focusing on “things noumenal” vs. “things relative”) 

What was called “my journey” began with . . . 

being immersed not only in a giant tank of water by an evangelical preacher but being immersed in all of the indoctrination, brainwashing, etc. which those in that fanatically-religious congregation all had down to a dark art form; 

being exposed to the non-dual understanding which my Cherokee grandmother shared from her cabin in the quiet East Texas piney woods while modeling an existence marked by calm and peace during with I cherished during the four months or so I spent with her each year; 

returning to the chaos of the city and the go-do-zoom mentality of an ultra-right-wing church which held services four times per week; 

reaching an age when I could leave that environment only to enter into another insane realm in which I engaged in excessive seeking in a go-do-zoom fashion, looking into the non-duality which had been introduced by Grandmother along with all sorts of religions and spiritual movements and philosophies and ideologies; 

then finally settling into a singular focus on a unique version of non-duality that made sense and which – for the first time ever – laid out an approach whereby I was not being taught anything and not hearing demands (as had happened in every other venue) that I believe exactly what everyone else in those various religions, movements, philosophies, and ideologies believed; 

and being invited to surrender completely and allow myself to be un-taught and to be led to un-learn all of the nonsense and BS which I had been taught for decades. 

That rare approach made the Direct Path Method combined with the nisarga yoga totally distinctive and unique and finally set the stage for realization, (which Maharaj explained merely involves being freed from the burden of all learned ignorance). 

That, in turn, set the stage for an end to the belief in all of the “bad” labels which had been applied throughout my existence as well as an end to the belief in all of the “good” labels which I had assumed or been assigned (including “The Super Religious One” and the last two to go, namely, “The Spiritual Giant,” and “The Super Seeker”). 

Yet that only happened with the return to the "The Child Ignorance Stage" or "the Child No-Knowing State." 

To return to that stage or state is to be free of the roots of all relative misery and suffering and wasted energy and preoccupation and going and doing and zooming. Those roots include: constantly searching for something that seems to be missing; constantly using ego-defense mechanisms to defend false identities / ego-states; 

constantly suffering from the debilitating effects of personality disorders; making life into a second job by constantly engaging in all sorts of "metaphysical exercises" and supposedly "religious and / or spiritual work" and going to services and meetings and studying constantly and working on "self"-improvement and being engaged in the neither natural nor sane to believe that one will be made better if one and the supernatural rather than enjoying the bliss of abiding naturally; 

working constantly to become better, to become something other than what one thinks he or she has been, to be something more than - or something in addition to - what one is; and working to be something other than that which one has always been, is, and shall forever be (though none among the non-realized have a clue what that refers to). 

Most who come this way say, "I just want to be happy" or "All I want for my children is that they be happy." They are asked, "When were you last happy, in a totally unconditional manner?" Eventually, the discussion leads them back to "the Child No-Knowing State." At that point, happiness happened as long as the basics of food and (dry) clothing and shelter had been met. 

At that stage, unconditional happiness happened because at that stage there was no wasted energy, no preoccupations, no being driven to go-do-zoom. There was no nagging sense that something is missing, so there was no constant drive to search for something; there was no use of ego-defense mechanisms to defend false identities / ego-states; there was no suffering from the debilitating effects of personality disorders; 

there was no making a job out of merely living; there was no engagement in "metaphysical exercises" and supposedly "religious and / or spiritual work"; there was no going to services and meetings and studying constantly and working on "self"-improvement; 

there was no longer a belief that one will be made better if one abides supernaturally rather than enjoying the bliss of abiding naturally; there was no working constantly to become better, to become something else; and there was no working to be something more than - or something in addition to - what I authentically was. 

No wonder that short period of time is the only time that most on the planet will ever enjoy unconditional happiness. 

TO REVIEW THAT WHICH ONE MUST BE RID OF IN ORDER TO RETURN TO "THE CHILD NO-KNOWING STAGE" AND THEN EXPERIENCE ONCE AGAIN UNCONDITIONAL HAPPINESS, NAMELY: 

ALL IDEAS, CONCEPTS, BELIEFS AND PERSONALITY IDENTIFICATIONS 

Some ask why so much attention is paid to personality by non-dualists and why the personality enneagram is taught by this author. A simple understanding of the results of being driven by the unconscious and hidden motivators rooted in personality should make clear the answer. 

Personality is not innate. It develops in response to (1) the abnormal and unnatural influences of the dysfunctionalism that children are exposed to and try to "adjust" to in their families of origin; and, later, to (2) the influences of ignorance-disseminating institutions and cultural "-ism's" and the effects of exposure to a plethora of the entities in all cultures which reinforce the abnormal and unnatural (to which dysfunctional families of non-Realized persons expose children). 

That which is rooted in a response to the abnormal and unnatural (and which involves no alternative options for making any independent choices or choosing an alternative environment) will also be abnormal and unnatural. And that is what personality is: abnormal and unnatural. What is innate in all humans is an inner sense of what is real and authentic which becomes blocked from consciousness because of ignorant programming, conditioning, etc. 

Because personality develops early on, a sense of self (and, eventually, selves) blocks the awareness of the essence, of authenticity, of the unicity. As noted earlier, there is initially a sense of Oneness, though it is not The Sense of Oneness: it happens for the first two years of a child's existence when it identifies with the mother and has no notions about "two-ness" or "duality," assuming that mother-child is "not two" but is "one" instead. 

Around the age of two, the child has "discovered" its hands and feet and, eventually, its own body that is separate from the body of the mom. At that point, another source of a false sense of separation and different-from-ment develops, setting the stage for the child to "find its own identity." 

Over the next years, the child will be assigned many false identities (will be assigned many false personas / personalities) and will eventually begin to assume many more false identities (false personas / personalities) on its own. 

[Note: "persona" (Lt.) = "mask," "character," "guise," "role," "facade," "front."] 

Each personality that develops or is assumed separates the child even farther from that initial sense of Self. Eventually, personality will block all awareness of Self as more and more false selves are believed (erroneously) to define "who one is." 

If non-dual pointers are to lead to a "re-realization" (to a "re-membering") of the real, then persons must first eliminate that which blocks the "path" and blocks the awareness of that innate sense of Self, namely, "a sense of self and selves" . . . a sense that personality / personalities are real . . . a sense that personas are of some benefit rather than one of the forces that generate chaos (and / or desires to control) throughout the relative existence. 

Per the Direct Path Method offered here, the final personality-purging-process happens after completion of the third of seven steps on the "journey" from the false "I" or "I's" to realization of truth, of the essence, of the Oneness. 

It is there that all false identities must and can be eliminated - including the roles of "The Religious One," "The Spiritual Giant," "The Knower," "The Supreme," and even "The Seeker" itself. 

To be continued.
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 Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns. 

THE EXPLANATION 

If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence. 

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to." 

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly"). 

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part. 

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on: 

"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within" 
--Yeshu'a (Jesus) 

and 

"Heaven and earth shall fade away." 
--Yeshu'a (Jesus) 

and 

"Heaven and hell are not geographic places 
but are states of mind, nothing more than 
concepts dreamed up by men." 
--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell." 
--Pope Francis, the current pope 
in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari, 
a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record 
teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium. 

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present. 

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why? 

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships? 

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.) 

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play. 

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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