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DANCING LIGHTLY

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DANCING LIGHTLY

“And heavy is the tread of the living, but the dead returning lightly dance.”

(Edward Thomas)

“The desires of the heart are as crooked as corkscrews.
Not to be born is the best for man.
The second best is a formal order.
The dance's pattern; dance while you can.
Dance, dance, for the figure is easy.
The tune is catching and will not stop.
Dance till the stars come down from the rafters.
Dance, dance, dance till you drop.”

W.H. Auden

ATTACHMENTS PREVENT LIGHTNESS

(Continued)

The Price of Belief in Façades, Including “Yours” and “Theirs”

To believe in the façades presented by others is to guarantee you are being fooled, and persons being fooled will suffer anguish, will by bilked of monetary funds, will be robbed of their peace, will have their chances of contentment / happiness to manifest long-term, and / or will suffer the slings and arrows of fighting, breaking up, and possibly being killed during breakups.

When do breakups come? When a partner’s façades are seen to be . . . façades: “I don’t even know who you are!” (Well join the club, Babe, because I don’t either.)

How many “lovers” present a façade which inspires a partner to lower her or his guard and set their targets up for financial, mental, physical, and / or emotional abuse?

How many naïve persons - seeking Mr. or Miss Goodbar - set themselves up for financial, mental, physical, and / or emotional abuse by believing that the façades being shown to them are real?

No one who has failed to understand the basic points of the non-dual message have even the slightest chance of forming healthy and lasting relations. It matters not if a person never hears the term “non-duality.”

There is no record that Yeshu’a (known erroneously as “Jesus”) ever used the term “non-duality,” but he certainly passed along non-dual pointers during the last few years of his manifestation. His non-duality-based message regarding relationships?

“Do not assume that I have come to bring peace. I come to bring a sword. I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and to turn the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.”

Was he suggesting that persons should literally use a sword to be free of the influence of those planning the phony roles of son, father, daughter, mother, daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, etc?

No. His message - and the non-dual message has always been - that the belief in those roles must end. Why? Because all roles have an agenda, often hidden from others and often hidden from self, and all such agendas are based in fears and desires; and fears and desires are key contributor to misery and frustration.

And false personality identifications cannot care less about the fears or needs or desires of others; they care only about their self-ish agendas. How could anyone with even a basic understanding of the way that phonies and liars and sociopaths and psychopaths function not expect to be harmed by people being driven by the belief in their false façades? Because they are neither awake nor aware nor conscious.

Yet such is the state of the non-realized masses: they fool themselves by believing in their own false images and they allow others to fool them by believing in the false images of others.

And the attachment to one’s false identities and to the false identities of others is an attachment that will assure that there shall be no enduring contentment and happiness during the relative existence.

YOUR ORIGINAL NATURE AND LIGHTNESS

If the lightness is not manifest, then persons will experience anxiety, depression or other conditions that will trigger emotional intoxication and self-defeating motion / action.

Such sufferers at that point will be driven to shift beyond the no do-er witnessing and to revert to the do-er mode because they think that they must act, must do something - even something rash - to escape, to gain control, or to hand the reins of control over to someone else.

Having been pulled away from abidance as their original nature by relative fears and desires, feeling as if they are being drawn below the surface of the ocean by one wave after another, seemingly certain that they are drowning and need rescuing, it is at that point that persons allow themselves to be locked into the types of attachment mentioned earlier.

If they speak of the condition to Me, this speck of conscious awareness will say: “You do not ever have to take a place to the rear of anyone; you do not have to delude yourself into thinking you are taking a place beside when you will actually be taking a place to the rear;

you do not ever have to accept the role of being nothing more than the background music to someone else’s song. You might play the game for a time, but you cannot last, living the lie that you will be living at that point.”

The talk here is only of freedom from things relative so that the independence of the Absolute can be felt and so that the prerequisites for peace - freedom and independence - can manifest.

To attach or not to attach - it’s all the “stuff” of the relative; choosing is always confusing, so it will always pull one into the strum und drang of the relative existence by way of the unconscious influence of personality / personalities.

Personalities, provided free rent inside the “mind,” travel about as if on one’s shoulders and back - riding along like additional heavy burdens (as if the challenges of the relative existence are not enough) and leaving them in a position where they can forever whisper their lies into your ears.

Being bogged down in the relative and being weighed down by the agendas of those personas will insure that there will be no chance at all for a sense of lightness to remain consistently. From their positions on your shoulders and back, it is as if the whisperings of those personalities are forever encouraging you to turn left when the “path” is to the right;

encouraging you to go right when independence and freedom and peace are to the left; and encouraging you to go the way of chaos that is camouflaged with all sorts of attractive, enticing ribbons and bows.

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

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