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Here, there is nothing that is believed, so there is no one here who wants you to believe anything, either. Here, the invitation is to be free of all that you have been programmed, conditioned, acculturated, and domesticated to believe so that you can be free, period.
Furthermore, for those who have developed a preference for any non-nisargan yoga or who prefer Traditional Advaita Vedanta, Neo-Advaita, Neo-Vedanta, or Pseudo Advaita: here you will only find the use of the Direct Path Method of teaching along with the Nisarga (Natural) Yoga, all shared in simple, everyday English.
F.: For years on this site, it has been shown on one occasion after another how persons develop their primary personality by the age of six and how the desires and fears of that personality - along with other personas assumed in subsequent years - then drive every thought that is thought, every word that is said, every action that is done.
It has been shown in this series that it is during the "coming in journey" from (a) the Absolute to (b) eventual abidance as multiple false "I's" (which can number in the hundreds) that - at the Pure Witnessing stage - a sense of Oneness and Completion gives way to a sense of separation and brokenness when a child at about the age of two begins to develop a sense of individuality, a sense of separateness, and the sense of a personalized identity.
It has also been shown how those senses - associated with one of more developing personalities / personas - begin to inspire obnoxious behavior, relatively speaking. All of that "child stuff" - if Full Realization never happens - becomes the "adult stuff" that drives each person among the non-Realized masses. What was Maharaj's take on the subject?
Questioner: "From early childhood I was taught to think that I am limited to my name and shape. A mere statement to the contrary will not erase the mental groove. A regular brain-washing is needed -- if at all it can be done."
Maharaj: "You call it brain-washing, I call it Yoga - levelling up all the mental ruts. You must not be compelled to think the same thoughts again and again. Move on!"
Q: "Easier said than done."
M: "Don't be childish! Easier to change, than to suffer. Grow out of your childishness, that is all."
F.: A "childishness" / "suffering" link? Yes. Yes, indeed.
On another occasion he offered this pointer on the topic: "You are afraid that you will lose your identity. This is childishness, clinging to the toys, to your desires and fears, opinions and ideas. Give it all up and be ready for the Real to assert itself."
In fact, he often addressed the fact that those seekers who came his way needed first to stop being so childish, so immature. They came claiming that they were seeking "spiritual maturity" but had not even begun to be free of their relative mental immaturity and their relative emotional immaturity.
They were living in a manner that was being determined by the agenda of the child that they were years before (and, therefore, the child that they still are now in all ways except chronological). And that is the state of all non-Realized persons.
Among adults behaving obnoxiously - like spoiled children ... like "His / Her Majesty, The Baby" - some might be functioning in the role of "The Power-Hungry, Power-Abusing Boss or Controller or Politician or Military Leader" or in any of the other roles that megalomaniacs assume;
some might be functioning in the role of "The Childish Man Using His Body As An Instrument for the Satisfaction of His Prurient Desires and Using Others As Objects for His Childish Satisfaction Alone"; some might be functioning in the role of "The Sexy Woman Who Trades Her Body in Exchange for a 'Higher Lifestyle' in Order to Live Like An Indulged Child That Is Being Taken Care of by a Rich and Spoiling Parent."
But ALL among the non-Realized - no matter what other roles they play - will be strapped with the additional burden of "The Irresponsible, 'Self'-Absorbed Child," wanting to be cared for by another; constantly wanting some power ("here" or "there") to intervene in his / her behalf; always wanting to find external sources of happiness and comfort; always wanting someone (or Someone?) at her / his beck and call to grant one more wish and to fulfill one more desire.
Want. Want. Want. Desire. Desire. Desire. Such is the peace-robbing mindset of those living under the influence of their subconscious childish agendas: asleep but thinking they are awake; talking while thinking erroneously that they are choosing their words;
behaving while mistakenly thinking that they are determining their actions; and thinking while believing falsely that their thoughts are their own thoughts rather than the thoughts of a two-year-old or a six-year-old as well as the thoughts and beliefs of all of their programmers and conditioners. Consider:
Questioner: "How is it that here my mind is engaged in high topics and finds dwelling on them easy and pleasant. When I return home I find myself forgetting all l have learnt here, worrying and fretting, unable to remember my real nature even for a moment. What may be the cause?"
Maharaj: "It is your childishness you are returning to. You are not fully grown up .... "
and
" ... Give full attention to what in you is crude and primitive, unreasonable and unkind, altogether childish, and you will ripen."
How entirely relevant and eternally timeless is the wisdom of a consideration that points to the debilitating effects of immaturity and childishness and the assumption of the identity of "The Baby King" or "The Baby Queen" or "His or Her Majesty, The Baby": " ... Give full attention to what in you is crude and primitive, unreasonable and unkind, altogether childish, and you will ripen."
Otherwise, the consideration is,
"What benefit could possibly come from understanding 'THAT' if one remains totally trapped in the childish unconsciousness of 'this'?"
It has been shown in this series that it is during the "coming in journey" from (a) the Absolute to (b) eventual abidance as multiple false "I's" (which can number in the hundreds) that - at the Pure Witnessing stage - a sense of Oneness and Completion gives way to a sense of separation and brokenness when a child at about the age of two begins to develop a sense of individuality, a sense of separateness, and the sense of a personalized identity.
It has also been shown how those senses - associated with one of more developing personalities / personas - begin to inspire obnoxious behavior, relatively speaking. All of that "child stuff" - if Full Realization never happens - becomes the "adult stuff" that drives each person among the non-Realized masses. What was Maharaj's take on the subject?
Questioner: "From early childhood I was taught to think that I am limited to my name and shape. A mere statement to the contrary will not erase the mental groove. A regular brain-washing is needed -- if at all it can be done."
Maharaj: "You call it brain-washing, I call it Yoga - levelling up all the mental ruts. You must not be compelled to think the same thoughts again and again. Move on!"
Q: "Easier said than done."
M: "Don't be childish! Easier to change, than to suffer. Grow out of your childishness, that is all."
F.: A "childishness" / "suffering" link? Yes. Yes, indeed.
On another occasion he offered this pointer on the topic: "You are afraid that you will lose your identity. This is childishness, clinging to the toys, to your desires and fears, opinions and ideas. Give it all up and be ready for the Real to assert itself."
In fact, he often addressed the fact that those seekers who came his way needed first to stop being so childish, so immature. They came claiming that they were seeking "spiritual maturity" but had not even begun to be free of their relative mental immaturity and their relative emotional immaturity.
They were living in a manner that was being determined by the agenda of the child that they were years before (and, therefore, the child that they still are now in all ways except chronological). And that is the state of all non-Realized persons.
Among adults behaving obnoxiously - like spoiled children ... like "His / Her Majesty, The Baby" - some might be functioning in the role of "The Power-Hungry, Power-Abusing Boss or Controller or Politician or Military Leader" or in any of the other roles that megalomaniacs assume;
some might be functioning in the role of "The Childish Man Using His Body As An Instrument for the Satisfaction of His Prurient Desires and Using Others As Objects for His Childish Satisfaction Alone"; some might be functioning in the role of "The Sexy Woman Who Trades Her Body in Exchange for a 'Higher Lifestyle' in Order to Live Like An Indulged Child That Is Being Taken Care of by a Rich and Spoiling Parent."
But ALL among the non-Realized - no matter what other roles they play - will be strapped with the additional burden of "The Irresponsible, 'Self'-Absorbed Child," wanting to be cared for by another; constantly wanting some power ("here" or "there") to intervene in his / her behalf; always wanting to find external sources of happiness and comfort; always wanting someone (or Someone?) at her / his beck and call to grant one more wish and to fulfill one more desire.
Want. Want. Want. Desire. Desire. Desire. Such is the peace-robbing mindset of those living under the influence of their subconscious childish agendas: asleep but thinking they are awake; talking while thinking erroneously that they are choosing their words;
behaving while mistakenly thinking that they are determining their actions; and thinking while believing falsely that their thoughts are their own thoughts rather than the thoughts of a two-year-old or a six-year-old as well as the thoughts and beliefs of all of their programmers and conditioners. Consider:
Questioner: "How is it that here my mind is engaged in high topics and finds dwelling on them easy and pleasant. When I return home I find myself forgetting all l have learnt here, worrying and fretting, unable to remember my real nature even for a moment. What may be the cause?"
Maharaj: "It is your childishness you are returning to. You are not fully grown up .... "
and
" ... Give full attention to what in you is crude and primitive, unreasonable and unkind, altogether childish, and you will ripen."
How entirely relevant and eternally timeless is the wisdom of a consideration that points to the debilitating effects of immaturity and childishness and the assumption of the identity of "The Baby King" or "The Baby Queen" or "His or Her Majesty, The Baby": " ... Give full attention to what in you is crude and primitive, unreasonable and unkind, altogether childish, and you will ripen."
Otherwise, the consideration is,
"What benefit could possibly come from understanding 'THAT' if one remains totally trapped in the childish unconsciousness of 'this'?"
Please enter the silence of contemplation. (To be continued)
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The Twice-Stolen Necklace Murders offers the non-duality message by way of a mystery-adventure novel, discussing the movement from pain to healing to awakening to peace.
From Dr. R.F. Maley, Ph.D, Professor Emeritus and former Head of the Department of Psychology, University of Houston: "Floyd Henderson's book, The Twice-Stolen Necklace Murders, is a fun read and an interesting mystery, but perhaps more importantly it serves as a vehicle for blending Eastern Philosophy and Native American Spirituality to make an intellectually challenging novel. The book's insights into both relationships and authoritarian conditioning of people in our society make it a must read, tracing the roots of narcissistic, sociopathic and psychopathic behaviors to the very core of the culture. This truly witty and politically-incorrect study of the aggressive nature of 'the American character' offers not only a diagnosis but also a treatment plan, making the book an excellent supplemental reading in courses such as psychology, anthropology, philosophy, sociology and counseling."
The Sequel to The Twice-Stolen Necklace Murders:
THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF WARS
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Much of what Louise has shared has resonated with many site visitors. to that end, some have inquired recently if Louise offers the online Advaita Internet Course. The answer is, "Yes."
Whether taking the course with Louise or Floyd, the price of the course includes all 11 of the Advaita eBooks, questions sent after completion of the assigned readings, replies to your answers, and follow-up as required.
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Now you can receive for $40 a downloadable computer file version of the same 7-hour satsang that seekers receive when they visit for the Advaita Retreat with Floyd. You will be guided through the seven steps from identification with the false "I" to the Absolute (and beyond).
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1. BY WATCHING the 4-Disk Video (DVD) Set, or the same retreat available as a downloadable file. Either will provide an entire seven-hour retreat / series of satsang sessions showing three seekers being guided through all seven steps by Floyd and can provide viewers with an “experiential,” step-by-step series of satsang meetings that will move the viewers from identification with the I to abidance as the Absolute and then to abidance as That Which Is beyond
Some seekers are already using the computer file version and the DVD sets for meetings in groups in homes, playing the retreat, pausing for discussion, etc.
To find out more or to purchase the DVD set or the downloadable computer file version of the retreat, click:
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2. BY READING these books in this exact order:
IT'S ALL BULLSHIT (And Why Knowing It Sets You Free)
SPIRITUAL SOBRIETY (Recovering What Religions Lost)
[Those two prepare the seeker to question it all]
THE MEDITATION GUIDES
[Provide a broad overview of the understanding]
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I DIE?
[Begins to free the seeker of body identification and the desire for body continuity]
THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS "PEACE OF MIND" (There Is Only Peace if You're Out of Your Mind)
[Shows the seeker how to be free of the subconscious motivators of the false content of the “mind”]
LIBERATION
[Shows the seeker how to be free of the subconscious motivators of personas]
THE ESSENCE OF THE TEACHINGS
[Provides the final preparation for the seeker to be directed along the “path”]
FROM THE I TO THE ABSOLUTE (A Seven-Step Journey to Reality)
[Directs the seeker along the “path”]
CONSCIOUSNESS/AWARENESS: The Nature of Reality Beyond Self-Realization (Peace Every Day When Abiding as The Absolute)
[Allows the seeker to understand the functioning of the totality, the manifestation, and what is involved with the un-manifestation]
FROM THE ABSOLUTE TO THE NOTHINGNESS
[Provides the seeker the wisdom to understand the Noneness as well as the Oneness]
Purchase an e-Book now and begin reading it in minutes (except with e-checks that can take 7-10 days). Trusting our clients as we do, all e-Books are provided to you in printable form.
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(You may order the books one at a time or you may use the following link to acquire the entire 11-e-Book set on sale for $99 if ordered at one time with the “Buy Now” button below. For this option, there will be no download links provided; once the near-instant notice of payment is received from PayPal, your e-Books will be sent to you as e-mail attachments. All are printable for your convenience.
NOTE: When you order this package, you receive three additional ebooks free: CASTING LIGHT ON THE DARK SIDE OF RELATIONSHIPS, FINDING REAL LOVE IN AN UNREAL WORLD and THE TWICE-STOLEN NECKLACE MURDERS (offering the Advaita teachings in a fictional novel format)
For more information or to order, click:
DVD or Downloadable computer file versions of the Four-Day Advaita Retreat
SIX WAYS THAT SEEKERS HAVE REALIZED:
1. BY WATCHING the 4-Disk Video (DVD) Set, or the same retreat available as a downloadable file. Either will provide an entire seven-hour retreat / series of satsang sessions showing three seekers being guided through all seven steps by Floyd and can provide viewers with an “experiential,” step-by-step series of satsang meetings that will move the viewers from identification with the I to abidance as the Absolute and then to abidance as That Which Is beyond
Some seekers are already using the computer file version and the DVD sets for meetings in groups in homes, playing the retreat, pausing for discussion, etc.
To find out more or to purchase the DVD set or the downloadable computer file version of the retreat, click:
DVD or Downloadable computer file versions of the Four-Day Advaita Retreat
Option “A” is for the downloadable file version, Option “B” is used to order the DVD set for delivery inside the U.S., Option “C” for international orders.
For the download, Paypal will send me a notice that payment has been received and then I will send by e-mail the downloading instruction, password, etc.
[It is recommended that you watch the video with pen and paper in hand. Write whatever you need clarified. You'll see that there are constant reviews and you might find an answer later in the seven-hour presentation. Then, after you watch it all, there will be a common ground for discussion. Purchase of the DVD’s or the file will include the right to clarifications and answers to your specific questions via e-mail.]
2. BY READING these books in this exact order:
IT'S ALL BULLSHIT (And Why Knowing It Sets You Free)
SPIRITUAL SOBRIETY (Recovering What Religions Lost)
[Those two prepare the seeker to question it all]
THE MEDITATION GUIDES
[Provide a broad overview of the understanding]
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I DIE?
[Begins to free the seeker of body identification and the desire for body continuity]
THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS "PEACE OF MIND" (There Is Only Peace if You're Out of Your Mind)
[Shows the seeker how to be free of the subconscious motivators of the false content of the “mind”]
LIBERATION
[Shows the seeker how to be free of the subconscious motivators of personas]
THE ESSENCE OF THE TEACHINGS
[Provides the final preparation for the seeker to be directed along the “path”]
FROM THE I TO THE ABSOLUTE (A Seven-Step Journey to Reality)
[Directs the seeker along the “path”]
CONSCIOUSNESS/AWARENESS: The Nature of Reality Beyond Self-Realization (Peace Every Day When Abiding as The Absolute)
[Allows the seeker to understand the functioning of the totality, the manifestation, and what is involved with the un-manifestation]
FROM THE ABSOLUTE TO THE NOTHINGNESS
[Provides the seeker the wisdom to understand the Noneness as well as the Oneness]
Purchase an e-Book now and begin reading it in minutes (except with e-checks that can take 7-10 days). Trusting our clients as we do, all e-Books are provided to you in printable form.
SAVE IF YOU BUY ALL ELEVEN AT ONCE:
(You may order the books one at a time or you may use the following link to acquire the entire 11-e-Book set on sale for $99 if ordered at one time with the “Buy Now” button below. For this option, there will be no download links provided; once the near-instant notice of payment is received from PayPal, your e-Books will be sent to you as e-mail attachments. All are printable for your convenience.
NOTE: When you order this package, you receive three additional ebooks free: CASTING LIGHT ON THE DARK SIDE OF RELATIONSHIPS, FINDING REAL LOVE IN AN UNREAL WORLD and THE TWICE-STOLEN NECKLACE MURDERS (offering the Advaita teachings in a fictional novel format)
You may visit The Official Website of Floyd Henderson for information on each book.
3. BY ENROLLING in the Online Advaita Classes
Received 19 August 2010 from one that just completed the entire course:
I would like to extend deepest appreciation towards you for these teachings that you have offered. It has been most valuable towards what may not have been revealed throughout this manifestation labeled "anthony." Understanding Truth and finding words for gratitude are one as is all. Thank you again for pointing "me" to THAT and the understanding that came as well. Hopeful for future "contact"! Sincerely, Anthony M. W.
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4. BY ATTENDING an Advaitin retreat for satsang with floyd and being guided through all seven steps. For details of the retreats offered, please visit the retreat information site.
5. BY ARRANGING satsang by telephone in the U.S. or by Skype internationally.
Presently, Skype sessions are being conducted with parties in Australia; The Netherlands; New Jersey, U.S.A.; London, England; Italy; and India.
Use the Contact link for details or for information on making arrangements for a session
6. BY ARRANGING for floyd to travel to your location and meet with you or your group. Use the contact link above to discuss details.
3. BY ENROLLING in the Online Advaita Classes
Received 19 August 2010 from one that just completed the entire course:
I would like to extend deepest appreciation towards you for these teachings that you have offered. It has been most valuable towards what may not have been revealed throughout this manifestation labeled "anthony." Understanding Truth and finding words for gratitude are one as is all. Thank you again for pointing "me" to THAT and the understanding that came as well. Hopeful for future "contact"! Sincerely, Anthony M. W.
For information, visit Information on the Advaita Classes on the Internet
To enroll visit Enroll in the Advaita Internet Course
4. BY ATTENDING an Advaitin retreat for satsang with floyd and being guided through all seven steps. For details of the retreats offered, please visit the retreat information site.
5. BY ARRANGING satsang by telephone in the U.S. or by Skype internationally.
Presently, Skype sessions are being conducted with parties in Australia; The Netherlands; New Jersey, U.S.A.; London, England; Italy; and India.
Use the Contact link for details or for information on making arrangements for a session
6. BY ARRANGING for floyd to travel to your location and meet with you or your group. Use the contact link above to discuss details.
The Twice-Stolen Necklace Murders offers the non-duality message by way of a mystery-adventure novel, discussing the movement from pain to healing to awakening to peace.
From Dr. R.F. Maley, Ph.D, Professor Emeritus and former Head of the Department of Psychology, University of Houston: "Floyd Henderson's book, The Twice-Stolen Necklace Murders, is a fun read and an interesting mystery, but perhaps more importantly it serves as a vehicle for blending Eastern Philosophy and Native American Spirituality to make an intellectually challenging novel. The book's insights into both relationships and authoritarian conditioning of people in our society make it a must read, tracing the roots of narcissistic, sociopathic and psychopathic behaviors to the very core of the culture. This truly witty and politically-incorrect study of the aggressive nature of 'the American character' offers not only a diagnosis but also a treatment plan, making the book an excellent supplemental reading in courses such as psychology, anthropology, philosophy, sociology and counseling."
You may purchase your copy of the ebook version of THE TWICE-STOLEN NECKLACE MURDERS then start reading within minutes:
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THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF WARS
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