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Here, there is nothing that is believed, so there is no one here who wants you to believe anything, either. Here, the invitation is to be free of all that you have been programmed, conditioned, acculturated, and domesticated to believe so that you can be free, period.
Furthermore, for those who have developed a preference for any non-nisargan yoga or who prefer Traditional Advaita Vedanta, Neo-Advaita, Neo-Vedanta, or Pseudo Advaita: here you will only find the use of the Direct Path Method of teaching along with the Nisarga (Natural) Yoga, all shared in simple, everyday English.
F.: These pointers about "Their Majesties, The Queen and King Babies" are not new to this site. In the 22 July 2007 post, this was shared:
Some persons were conditioned and programmed to believe that they are “bad.” The resulting low self-esteem can make persons aggressive, but more often the result is that persons become easily hurt by criticism; avoid feelings while being trapped in emotions; take blame for everything considered negative; feel helpless; fear failure; try to please others; suffer depression; and can become self-destructive. The result of duality in their case is instability.
On the other hand, there are those who were programmed to believe that they are “really good,” "really special," and “really different” from “others.” Freud used the term "His Majesty, the Baby" to describe these types. Others use the term "Queen Baby" or "King Baby" to describe persons with overly-inflated self-esteem and who dualistically believe that they are "very good" and "better than others."
As a result of buying into that dualistic extreme, these babies in adult bodies eventually lose the ability to feel but do react with extreme emotionalism; become addicted to chaos and also suffer instability; become obsessed with the phenomenal existence and its preoccupation with the material;
become more trapped than most in dualistic and judgmental thinking; overreact; demand immediate gratification; develop a paranoid and dualistic "me vs. them" mentality; blame and complain; seek approval; hate criticism; and become impulsive, irritable, aggressive, irresponsible, destructive, harmful, deceitful, and manipulative.
Convinced that their sense of entitlement is legitimate, they can even become criminal when all does not go their way or when they do not get what they want. Such are the tolls of buying into "bad" labels, as with the first group, and buying into "good" labels the way that "His Majesty, the Baby" does. Functioning under the influence of such duality, instability and moods swings and chaos are inevitable.
Understanding the pointers in the 2007 post and the ones in this series should reveal that "His and Her Majesties, the Babies" actually believe that "the world" is their kingdom and that they have the right to rule as a total authoritarian or despot or autocrat or oppressor or dictator or tyrant or tyrannical ruler.
A timid teacher cannot provide the plan required to overthrow such arrogant rule as that displayed by "His and Her Majesties, the Babies" who believe that they are to be treated like royalty. Tyrannical rulers never forfeit their perceived power without a struggle.
[When the considerations offered by an Advaitin teacher begin to strike out at the ego-states, the egotism, the dogma and the kindergarten-level spiritual beliefs of seekers, that "struggle" begins and the desire to cling to perceived power or to the quest for power will drive most seekers to "dig in their heels" and defend their "self" or "selves" against what they take to be a "personal attack"; indeed, they are spot on: the personal is being attacked. The imaginary kingdom then either prepares for a long siege or considers allowing the walls that have been erected by programming and conditioning and acculturation to collapse and thereby allow the teacher that is pointing to truth to enter and to begin disassembling the clusters of false personas and ideas and beliefs that have accumulated.]
It must be understood that the effective teacher - taking on such entrenched ideas and concepts and beliefs as those held by "His and Her Majesty, the Babies" and by the non-Realized masses at large - cannot be timid. The effective Advaitin teacher must be an energetic revolutionary, a true maverick (as Maharaj was called), a rebel insurgent, a fearless mutineer.
The effective teacher must care not a whit about public opinion, knowing that there is no such thing as "conventional wisdom" and understanding that there is only "conventional ignorance."
The effective teacher knows that the learned ignorance so popular among the masses must be annihilated if persons are ever to be freed from living under the influence and control of the nonsensical beliefs and concepts of the leaders in their cultures and clubs and groups and secret societies and cults.
The effective teacher also knows that the persons needing to be freed of especially-ingrained ignorance include the members of the sky cults that meet in temples and churches and mosques and halls and step group locations and basilicas and cathedrals and chapels and monasteries and pyramids and shrines and synagogues and pagodas and all other buildings and locales that are erroneously deemed to be "different places" or " holy places" or "spiritual places."
The big name teachers who pander to the baser desires of the masses and who claim that they can show people how to gain "power" and "control" and "more knowledge" and "success" and "fulfillment of ambitions" and "advancement" and "the fulfillment of all desires and dreams" are only effective at reinforcing the false identities ...
... of "Their Majesties"; of "The Power Seekers"; of "The Would-Be Controllers"; of "The Knowers"; of "The Successful Ones"; of "The Desirers of All Things Relative"; and of those playing the role of "The King or Queen Baby That Is Entitled to Everything It Wants, Exactly When It Wants It."
Some persons were conditioned and programmed to believe that they are “bad.” The resulting low self-esteem can make persons aggressive, but more often the result is that persons become easily hurt by criticism; avoid feelings while being trapped in emotions; take blame for everything considered negative; feel helpless; fear failure; try to please others; suffer depression; and can become self-destructive. The result of duality in their case is instability.
On the other hand, there are those who were programmed to believe that they are “really good,” "really special," and “really different” from “others.” Freud used the term "His Majesty, the Baby" to describe these types. Others use the term "Queen Baby" or "King Baby" to describe persons with overly-inflated self-esteem and who dualistically believe that they are "very good" and "better than others."
As a result of buying into that dualistic extreme, these babies in adult bodies eventually lose the ability to feel but do react with extreme emotionalism; become addicted to chaos and also suffer instability; become obsessed with the phenomenal existence and its preoccupation with the material;
become more trapped than most in dualistic and judgmental thinking; overreact; demand immediate gratification; develop a paranoid and dualistic "me vs. them" mentality; blame and complain; seek approval; hate criticism; and become impulsive, irritable, aggressive, irresponsible, destructive, harmful, deceitful, and manipulative.
Convinced that their sense of entitlement is legitimate, they can even become criminal when all does not go their way or when they do not get what they want. Such are the tolls of buying into "bad" labels, as with the first group, and buying into "good" labels the way that "His Majesty, the Baby" does. Functioning under the influence of such duality, instability and moods swings and chaos are inevitable.
Understanding the pointers in the 2007 post and the ones in this series should reveal that "His and Her Majesties, the Babies" actually believe that "the world" is their kingdom and that they have the right to rule as a total authoritarian or despot or autocrat or oppressor or dictator or tyrant or tyrannical ruler.
A timid teacher cannot provide the plan required to overthrow such arrogant rule as that displayed by "His and Her Majesties, the Babies" who believe that they are to be treated like royalty. Tyrannical rulers never forfeit their perceived power without a struggle.
[When the considerations offered by an Advaitin teacher begin to strike out at the ego-states, the egotism, the dogma and the kindergarten-level spiritual beliefs of seekers, that "struggle" begins and the desire to cling to perceived power or to the quest for power will drive most seekers to "dig in their heels" and defend their "self" or "selves" against what they take to be a "personal attack"; indeed, they are spot on: the personal is being attacked. The imaginary kingdom then either prepares for a long siege or considers allowing the walls that have been erected by programming and conditioning and acculturation to collapse and thereby allow the teacher that is pointing to truth to enter and to begin disassembling the clusters of false personas and ideas and beliefs that have accumulated.]
It must be understood that the effective teacher - taking on such entrenched ideas and concepts and beliefs as those held by "His and Her Majesty, the Babies" and by the non-Realized masses at large - cannot be timid. The effective Advaitin teacher must be an energetic revolutionary, a true maverick (as Maharaj was called), a rebel insurgent, a fearless mutineer.
The effective teacher must care not a whit about public opinion, knowing that there is no such thing as "conventional wisdom" and understanding that there is only "conventional ignorance."
The effective teacher knows that the learned ignorance so popular among the masses must be annihilated if persons are ever to be freed from living under the influence and control of the nonsensical beliefs and concepts of the leaders in their cultures and clubs and groups and secret societies and cults.
The effective teacher also knows that the persons needing to be freed of especially-ingrained ignorance include the members of the sky cults that meet in temples and churches and mosques and halls and step group locations and basilicas and cathedrals and chapels and monasteries and pyramids and shrines and synagogues and pagodas and all other buildings and locales that are erroneously deemed to be "different places" or " holy places" or "spiritual places."
The big name teachers who pander to the baser desires of the masses and who claim that they can show people how to gain "power" and "control" and "more knowledge" and "success" and "fulfillment of ambitions" and "advancement" and "the fulfillment of all desires and dreams" are only effective at reinforcing the false identities ...
... of "Their Majesties"; of "The Power Seekers"; of "The Would-Be Controllers"; of "The Knowers"; of "The Successful Ones"; of "The Desirers of All Things Relative"; and of those playing the role of "The King or Queen Baby That Is Entitled to Everything It Wants, Exactly When It Wants It."
Please enter the silence of contemplation. (To be continued)
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From Dr. R.F. Maley, Ph.D, Professor Emeritus and former Head of the Department of Psychology, University of Houston: "Floyd Henderson's book, The Twice-Stolen Necklace Murders, is a fun read and an interesting mystery, but perhaps more importantly it serves as a vehicle for blending Eastern Philosophy and Native American Spirituality to make an intellectually challenging novel. The book's insights into both relationships and authoritarian conditioning of people in our society make it a must read, tracing the roots of narcissistic, sociopathic and psychopathic behaviors to the very core of the culture. This truly witty and politically-incorrect study of the aggressive nature of 'the American character' offers not only a diagnosis but also a treatment plan, making the book an excellent supplemental reading in courses such as psychology, anthropology, philosophy, sociology and counseling."
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THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF WARS
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IT'S ALL BULLSHIT (And Why Knowing It Sets You Free)
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THE MEDITATION GUIDES
[Provide a broad overview of the understanding]
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I DIE?
[Begins to free the seeker of body identification and the desire for body continuity]
THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS "PEACE OF MIND" (There Is Only Peace if You're Out of Your Mind)
[Shows the seeker how to be free of the subconscious motivators of the false content of the “mind”]
LIBERATION
[Shows the seeker how to be free of the subconscious motivators of personas]
THE ESSENCE OF THE TEACHINGS
[Provides the final preparation for the seeker to be directed along the “path”]
FROM THE I TO THE ABSOLUTE (A Seven-Step Journey to Reality)
[Directs the seeker along the “path”]
CONSCIOUSNESS/AWARENESS: The Nature of Reality Beyond Self-Realization (Peace Every Day When Abiding as The Absolute)
[Allows the seeker to understand the functioning of the totality, the manifestation, and what is involved with the un-manifestation]
FROM THE ABSOLUTE TO THE NOTHINGNESS
[Provides the seeker the wisdom to understand the Noneness as well as the Oneness]
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NOTE: When you order this package, you receive three additional ebooks free: CASTING LIGHT ON THE DARK SIDE OF RELATIONSHIPS, FINDING REAL LOVE IN AN UNREAL WORLD and THE TWICE-STOLEN NECKLACE MURDERS (offering the Advaita teachings in a fictional novel format)
For more information or to order, click:
DVD or Downloadable computer file versions of the Four-Day Advaita Retreat
SIX WAYS THAT SEEKERS HAVE REALIZED:
1. BY WATCHING the 4-Disk Video (DVD) Set, or the same retreat available as a downloadable file. Either will provide an entire seven-hour retreat / series of satsang sessions showing three seekers being guided through all seven steps by Floyd and can provide viewers with an “experiential,” step-by-step series of satsang meetings that will move the viewers from identification with the I to abidance as the Absolute and then to abidance as That Which Is beyond
Some seekers are already using the computer file version and the DVD sets for meetings in groups in homes, playing the retreat, pausing for discussion, etc.
To find out more or to purchase the DVD set or the downloadable computer file version of the retreat, click:
DVD or Downloadable computer file versions of the Four-Day Advaita Retreat
Option “A” is for the downloadable file version, Option “B” is used to order the DVD set for delivery inside the U.S., Option “C” for international orders.
For the download, Paypal will send me a notice that payment has been received and then I will send by e-mail the downloading instruction, password, etc.
[It is recommended that you watch the video with pen and paper in hand. Write whatever you need clarified. You'll see that there are constant reviews and you might find an answer later in the seven-hour presentation. Then, after you watch it all, there will be a common ground for discussion. Purchase of the DVD’s or the file will include the right to clarifications and answers to your specific questions via e-mail.]
2. BY READING these books in this exact order:
IT'S ALL BULLSHIT (And Why Knowing It Sets You Free)
SPIRITUAL SOBRIETY (Recovering What Religions Lost)
[Those two prepare the seeker to question it all]
THE MEDITATION GUIDES
[Provide a broad overview of the understanding]
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I DIE?
[Begins to free the seeker of body identification and the desire for body continuity]
THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS "PEACE OF MIND" (There Is Only Peace if You're Out of Your Mind)
[Shows the seeker how to be free of the subconscious motivators of the false content of the “mind”]
LIBERATION
[Shows the seeker how to be free of the subconscious motivators of personas]
THE ESSENCE OF THE TEACHINGS
[Provides the final preparation for the seeker to be directed along the “path”]
FROM THE I TO THE ABSOLUTE (A Seven-Step Journey to Reality)
[Directs the seeker along the “path”]
CONSCIOUSNESS/AWARENESS: The Nature of Reality Beyond Self-Realization (Peace Every Day When Abiding as The Absolute)
[Allows the seeker to understand the functioning of the totality, the manifestation, and what is involved with the un-manifestation]
FROM THE ABSOLUTE TO THE NOTHINGNESS
[Provides the seeker the wisdom to understand the Noneness as well as the Oneness]
Purchase an e-Book now and begin reading it in minutes (except with e-checks that can take 7-10 days). Trusting our clients as we do, all e-Books are provided to you in printable form.
SAVE IF YOU BUY ALL ELEVEN AT ONCE:
(You may order the books one at a time or you may use the following link to acquire the entire 11-e-Book set on sale for $99 if ordered at one time with the “Buy Now” button below. For this option, there will be no download links provided; once the near-instant notice of payment is received from PayPal, your e-Books will be sent to you as e-mail attachments. All are printable for your convenience.
NOTE: When you order this package, you receive three additional ebooks free: CASTING LIGHT ON THE DARK SIDE OF RELATIONSHIPS, FINDING REAL LOVE IN AN UNREAL WORLD and THE TWICE-STOLEN NECKLACE MURDERS (offering the Advaita teachings in a fictional novel format)
You may visit The Official Website of Floyd Henderson for information on each book.
3. BY ENROLLING in the Online Advaita Classes
Received 19 August 2010 from one that just completed the entire course:
I would like to extend deepest appreciation towards you for these teachings that you have offered. It has been most valuable towards what may not have been revealed throughout this manifestation labeled "anthony." Understanding Truth and finding words for gratitude are one as is all. Thank you again for pointing "me" to THAT and the understanding that came as well. Hopeful for future "contact"! Sincerely, Anthony M. W.
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4. BY ATTENDING an Advaitin retreat for satsang with floyd and being guided through all seven steps. For details of the retreats offered, please visit the retreat information site.
5. BY ARRANGING satsang by telephone in the U.S. or by Skype internationally.
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6. BY ARRANGING for floyd to travel to your location and meet with you or your group. Use the contact link above to discuss details.
3. BY ENROLLING in the Online Advaita Classes
Received 19 August 2010 from one that just completed the entire course:
I would like to extend deepest appreciation towards you for these teachings that you have offered. It has been most valuable towards what may not have been revealed throughout this manifestation labeled "anthony." Understanding Truth and finding words for gratitude are one as is all. Thank you again for pointing "me" to THAT and the understanding that came as well. Hopeful for future "contact"! Sincerely, Anthony M. W.
For information, visit Information on the Advaita Classes on the Internet
To enroll visit Enroll in the Advaita Internet Course
4. BY ATTENDING an Advaitin retreat for satsang with floyd and being guided through all seven steps. For details of the retreats offered, please visit the retreat information site.
5. BY ARRANGING satsang by telephone in the U.S. or by Skype internationally.
Presently, Skype sessions are being conducted with parties in Australia; The Netherlands; New Jersey, U.S.A.; London, England; Italy; and India.
Use the Contact link for details or for information on making arrangements for a session
6. BY ARRANGING for floyd to travel to your location and meet with you or your group. Use the contact link above to discuss details.
The Twice-Stolen Necklace Murders offers the non-duality message by way of a mystery-adventure novel, discussing the movement from pain to healing to awakening to peace.
From Dr. R.F. Maley, Ph.D, Professor Emeritus and former Head of the Department of Psychology, University of Houston: "Floyd Henderson's book, The Twice-Stolen Necklace Murders, is a fun read and an interesting mystery, but perhaps more importantly it serves as a vehicle for blending Eastern Philosophy and Native American Spirituality to make an intellectually challenging novel. The book's insights into both relationships and authoritarian conditioning of people in our society make it a must read, tracing the roots of narcissistic, sociopathic and psychopathic behaviors to the very core of the culture. This truly witty and politically-incorrect study of the aggressive nature of 'the American character' offers not only a diagnosis but also a treatment plan, making the book an excellent supplemental reading in courses such as psychology, anthropology, philosophy, sociology and counseling."
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