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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING TOTALLY INDEPENDENT

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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING TOTALLY INDEPENDENT

“...You are afraid of freedom!”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj 

Two political leaders during the days of WWII, Truman and Churchill, made statements that are apropos to this discussion: Harry Truman, nicknamed “Give 'Em Hell Harry,” said: “I never give them hell. I just tell the truth and they think it's hell.”

While the truth cannot be stated but can be known, it could be said that Maharaj offered pointers which were spot on and people thought that hearing spot-on pointers was hell.

The same has happened here in the U.S. Why? Because spot-on pointers are similar to the fictional tales of “driving a wooden stake into the heart of the proverbial vampire” in order to be rid of it:

similarly, what happens when a realized guide strikes a blow at the false personas that are assumed to be real by persons is either that

(1) the previously-blocked specks of consciousness can be free of the effects of believing in that which is false; or, as is more often the case, that

(2) such persons think that they are “being given hell,” instead.

Why else such reactions when freedom-offering pointers are taken to be “offensive” (when the fact is that only an ego-state can think it has been offended)? Winston Churchill's words also apply, specifically, when he spoke of “a bodyguard of lies.”

For seekers and non-seekers alike, the term applies to the many bodyguards - to the many guardians of the lies - which persons have been told. The term applies to those who led the way in blocking the clear and unobstructed consciousness via the use of the lies which were presented as unquestionable truths and which applies to those who used lies to program each and everyone and to condition each and everyone and to acculturate and to domesticate each and everyone.

How offensive it is to “The Good Son” and “The Good Daughter” who believe the egotistical message that they “turned out so well” and that “their parents, therefore, must have done a pretty damn good job.”

One need not carry a resentment against those who passed on lies that they took to be truth; however, if persons would be free, then they must be willing to see that the persons, the ones who taught them what they know, were guardians of lies.

They must understand that the messages delivered and received by countless specks of blocked consciousness (which inspired them to use ego-defense mechanisms to support false identities) had no validity at all.

Offensive it is to the ego to admit that, among the guardians of the lies were: parents, religious leaders and / or spiritual leaders; famous Big Name Teachers; political leaders; business leaders; gurus; and, in fact, their entire culture.

“The Guardians of Lies” can apply to all of the specks of blocked consciousness that are functioning in all of the major fields of influence:

in many Western cultures, that especially includes church, state, and business; in some other theocratic cultures, that applies mainly to religious leaders; in some cultures, at certain times in their history, it applies mainly to the moneymakers.

Whatever the tendency of any given culture at any given time, the “Bodyguards of the Lies” are robbing persons of their potential opportunity to be free.

Among “truly realized non-duality guides,” the intent is to undo the effects of such robbery and to guide seekers through a process of un-learning, a process which can thereafter restore the state of freedom that has been stolen from all who take themselves to be persons. Yet most do not want to abandon their false roles; thus, Maharaj's pointer that “you are afraid of freedom.”

Earlier, these words from a visitor to the loft were shared:

“You seem to say that there can be perceiving without a perceiver, knowing without a knower, loving without a lover, acting without an actor.

Exactly! That is the key to “living free,” that is, to abiding post-realization in a totally free state. Yet the perceiver and the knower and the lover and the actor seldom have any inclination at all to abandon their false roles. They do not so much as even consider the fact that:

husbanding can happen without the assumption of the false identity of “The Husband” which soon becomes upgraded to “The Super Husband” and which brings with that assumption and upgrading untold misery and suffering;

wifing can happen without the assumption of the false identity of “The Wife” which soon becomes upgraded to “The Super Wife” and which brings with that assumption and upgrading untold misery and suffering;

and employing can happen without the assumption of the false identity of “The Employer” which soon becomes upgraded to “The Super Employer” and which brings with that assumption and upgrading untold misery and suffering.

If one can still be offended by any of the words of a realized guide which seem to feel like a wooden stake being driven through the heart, and if one thinks that the spot-on words of such a guide are offensive, and if you believe that a speck of pure consciousness that is pointing you toward Truth is “giving you hell” . . .

. . . then that one is still assuming false ego-states as identities that are being supported by ego-defense mechanisms; is still defending the Guardians of the Lies; and is still vulnerable to suffering from the emotional intoxication which is triggered when that to which one remains attached is shown to be in error.

And the end result of all of that is this: one will continue to believe “their” lies and will be afraid of being totally free. That need not be.

To take the discussion to another level, it might be said that the masses are less afraid of freedom than they are uninterested in true freedom. Why? First, they do not know that they are not free.

In the U.S., mislabeled a “democracy,” persons love to talk about their freedoms, to sing about their freedoms, and to think they are separated from “others” who are not as free. The U.S. president who knowingly invaded Iraq under false pretense even made the ignorance-based claim that “people hate us for our freedoms.”

Wait. For our freedoms? Not because the U.S. has historically robbed others of their freedom, but because the U.S. has its own freedom? They are jealous?

Hatred is not inspired because the “defense budget” is larger than the defense budgets of all other nations combined and is used to fund efforts to control or to nation-build or to try to mold the world into its own image?

In fact, the U.S. has not defended itself successfully for decades, so that “defense budget” is really an “offense budget,” used far more to attack than to defend. Might that have something to do with much of the global animosity?

Yet that same president who verbalized his theory about “why they hate us - it's because of our freedoms and our being a democracy” was elected to his office though his opponent received 543,895 more votes. Democracy? Free?

The electoral college (and even the U.S. Supreme Court) have the power to determine who is president rather than not the number of popular votes. “Majority rules” is another delusion here.

There have been five U.S. presidents who received fewer votes than their opponents. Where is freedom and democracy there? Refuse to pay the taxes imposed by the federal government and see how free you are.

Drive faster than the authorities tell you that you can drive, drive by a policeman who is hiding in wait along the highway (just as robbers did in the past), and you'll pay a fine in the $250-$300 range. Free? Really? Yet the masses here really believe that they are free.

Now, while the beliefs they have about being a part of a “democracy” and being free are nothing more than parts of a culture-wide, nationalism-and-ego-inspired delusion, the real entrapment comes each day as a result of the “prison of the mind” and “the prison of personality.”

And that is another level at which the masses have no clue at all that they have no freedom, that they are not free at all; additionally, most persons do not want to be independent to even a small degree, much less totally independent, so realization cannot come.

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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