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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING TOTALLY INDEPENDENT

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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING TOTALLY INDEPENDENT

“...You are afraid of freedom!”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj 

If one has followed the postings on this site and taken the pointers into consideration, then it should be clear by now that the masses prefer dependence, having been programmed and conditioned and acculturated and domesticated and indoctrinated and brainwashed to believe that establishing and maintaining dependencies and co-dependencies are the prerequisites for happiness.

“It is normal to do so,” they will claim, the consciousness having been so blocked that it is dependency and co-dependency - and not total freedom . . . not total independence - which have been normalized and endorsed on a culture-wide basis.

Recall that understanding personality identifications and the personality disorders which accompany them reveals that . . .

more than 50% of the humans on the planet are Personality Type Sixes;

reveals that . . .

Personality Type Sixes exhibit the Dependency Personality Disorder and the Co-Dependency Disorder, so 50% are “pre-wired” so that they accept unquestioningly the global message that one should be dependent, not independent . . . not totally free;

Reveals that only ½ of 1% of the humans on the planet are Personality Type Fours who are pre-wired to question, to challenge abusive authority, and to seek to be independent, that is, totally free.

Therefore, from “the get-go,” the odds are 50:1 that most persons will be uncomfortable when authority is challenged and will be afraid if invited to consider giving up their drive to form dependencies (and to give up their group dependencies and their dependencies on institutions to take care of them).

Thus Maharaj was spot on when he said to the masses, “ . . . You are afraid of freedom!”

To move to the next level of the understanding, this irony must be seen:

in terms of the non-duality understanding, all are already free because that “all” refers to nothing more than mere specks of conscious-energy which cannot even be touched, much less imprisoned.

At one point on the “path,” the guide might say that “your freedom has been stripped away by the mirages which your personas take to be real”; however, it is seen by seekers that move farther along the “path” that a mirage cannot take away anything and that nothing can be taken away from a person / persona that is not real in the first place.

A non-real mirage cannot do anything to a not-real person, and a not-real person cannot do anything to anyone or anything. The point is, you are already totally free without even knowing it.

Yet that pointer cannot be understood by the persons who do not understand all that they are not. Each assumed or assigned persona has a primary desire and a primary fear, and persons at any given time might well have 80 personas - false identifications - at play.

Therefore, if one would be free of the frustration of unmet desires time and again, and if one would be free of imprisoning fear, then one much be free of the belief in any persona, in any personality identification.

The energy-consciousness that can use the pronoun “I” to speak of itself cannot be bound or imprisoned, though temporarily manifested in a body it might be. 

And that presence in a body-cum-consciousness is far more finite than is understood by the masses and is also often misunderstood by many claiming the realized state.

So free is the conscious-energy that there is actually no continuity of the manifested consciousness even in a body-cum-consciousness. If the consciousness were a finite, individually-identifiable amount of energy that was not constantly coming and going into and out of any given space or form, then no human or living thing would ever need to eat again.

But the consciousness that was present two months ago in this plant food body-cum-consciousness that is called “floyd” is not the same quantity of conscious-energy that is present today. A constant re-supply of three things is required for what is called “life” to continue:

A. elements must be re-supplied (the skin covering this space today being totally different from the skin that was present 28 days ago, for example);

B. the oxygen must be re-supplied (which is the issue now being faced by this plant food body since oxygen is not being re-supplied at normal levels as a result of less-than-normal activity by the heart or lungs or both); and

C. the conscious-energy must be re-supplied (which is accomplished by eating plants or by eating something that ate plants).

That is all which these manifestations called “you” or “floyd” are about: elements, air, energy - the “composite unity.”

Only the illusion of “memory” leads persons to believe otherwise. The fact is that the consciousness is so free that it cannot be bound within any space for more than a brief period.

Conscious-energy is free-ranging.

To use the “I” accurately to refer to the ever-in-motion consciousness means it can be stated factually that “I AM” and it can be understood that “I” - a speck of energy - am totally free.

But the programmed and conditioned consciousness has no interest in being free, that is, free of its delusions, free of its illusions, and free of its false but assumed identities / roles / ego-states / stage characters / actors / personalities / personas . . .  call them what you will.

While the realized state is accessible to all who would but see it, it is a state that is “reached” by only a few thousand on the planet at any given time because of the attachment that persons have to their false notions about “individuality,” about things “personal,” or about some “unique selfhood” (or “SELF-hood”) to which they cling.

Not unlike the largest, most powerful ship on the planet which is still not free as long as it remains attached to a dock, so too are persons not free as long as there is the slightest attachment to the illusions of a personal, individuated self.

As long as a belief in any personality remains, as long as there is even one persona that is thought to be real, then freedom will be surrendered to the two elements that accompany every persona, namely, fears (which are imagined) and desires (which are never met with any consistency).

As noted, husbanding can happen even if the assumption of the role of “The Husband” is cast aside; however, if that false identity remains, it will generate desires and fears. So, too, is the case with “The Wife,” “The Good Child,” “The Perfect One,” “The Helper / Savior,”

“The Boss,” “The Knower,” “The Patriot,” or members of the MAGA group who are trapped in their identities of “The Grievance Collectors” and “The Super Victims,” ad infinitum.

Each belief held and each persona adopted will serve as one of the bars of the prison of your “mind.” As long as a “mind” is present, total freedom cannot manifest; furthermore, for most, freedom is not at all what they think freedom is, especially in light of what is revealed via the nisarga yoga.

Louise wrote: “The dawning of the natural state is not what you expect.”

How very accurate.

Freedom is not about being free to attain what one wants, for anything wanted is only wanted by an illusory ego-state. It is wanting during the relative existence, in fact, that ends any opportunity to understand real freedom during that existence.

Similarly, it is trying to keep what one has accumulated (including not only places and things but persons as well) that ends any opportunity to understand real freedom during that existence.

It is the toll of trying to maintain what one has accumulated (including not only places and things but persons as well) that ends any opportunity to understand real freedom during that existence.

Freedom is not about hanging onto this or that; it is about being willing to give it all up, including all accumulations and any and all identifications.

Maharaj said to the seekers who came to his loft that they wanted him to give them something but that, in fact, he would give them nothing but would, instead, take away everything.

Isn’t that what the penultimate aim here is about, namely, un-teaching everything so that seekers can un-learn all they have been taught and now believe?

Some at any given time may be trapped in the most horrific circumstances on the planet, exposed to such relative miseries as famine and abject poverty and war and rape and murder and (in the U.S.) being shot dead in elementary schools and grocery stores and movie theaters and nightclubs and in their homes during the breakup of a relationship and in other places where the members of the public gather.

The realized feel that pain and suffering; the realized, as Love, would that it would end; but the realized understand that as long as there are persons, there shall be conflict and ignorance and stupidity and insanity and relative harm and relative imprisonment.

Yet as high as the numbers are of those suffering physically, the most widespread suffering comes to the billions who are trapped in their mirages. If you want to know what that illusory prison looks like, watch a street mime in Paris that is seemingly trapped inside an invisible box, raising his palms and pushing on one side after another in an effort to escape and be free.

You, (presently during the AM-ness) the pure witnessing, see that there is no prison, that there is total freedom. You understand full well that the mime could walk away from his perceived entrapment whenever he chooses (except for the fact that adopting a persona ends any opportunity to choose).

You know that the glass box is not real, that it is mere fantasy, that it is just a part of the play-acting, that it is a figment of the imagination. Yet look how real it seems to the one trapped in the illusion. Notice how clueless and perplexed she or he is (and how clueless and perplexed all persons are) when lost in the dream . . . when trapped in an imaginary prison.

Yet the non-realized live life in the fashion of that mime and believe that the glass box is real, though it is only an invention of the mind.

Yet how very much such inventions can bring mental misery and emotional suffering!

So it is when those separated from reality seemingly live in their imaginary prisons of false beliefs, of false identities, of false-personality-based fears, and of false-personality-based desires.

To be continued as the conclusion nears.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

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