LIBERATION (Attaining Freedom from Personality via Realization)

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LIBERATION (Attaining Freedom from Personality via Realization)

“After the information given to you by the mother, that you are a boy or girl, all your further acquisitions [false identities] are by hearsay.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

The Impact of Abiding As a Personality Type Eight On The Relative Existence and the Relative Effects of Personality: Fears, Desires and Interrupted Happiness

[Type Eight continued]

Baron and Wagele offer these traits of Type Eights when “at their worst”:

controlling

rebellious (meaning, in their case, bent on destroying all people and institutions that do not succumb to their will or that question them and their authority)

insensitive

domineering

self- centered

aggressive

uncompromising

combative

arrogant

possessive

quick to find fault

expect loyalty even when they do not give it

highly critical

overwhelm people with their bluntness

restless and inpatient

never forgetting perceived injuries oe slights

demanding

rigid

out of touch with their feelings

enraged by criticism

abuse their power

abuse people

have a vocabulary filled with “off-color” expressions and profanity

and

believe they are wise and that all others are fools.

Some counselors and other mental health professionals who are driven to present an image of being super moral and of traveling only along the high road will say, “I cannot tell you whether someone is a sociopath or not without having spent time with him or her in person?”

Really?

Russ Hudson of the Enneagram Institute pointed out the following about Personality Type Eights:

BASIC FEAR AND BASIC DESIRE

Type Eights have a BASIC FEAR of being harmed, violated or controlled by others

Type Eights have a BASIC DESIRE to protect themselves, to gain control of their lives, and to control all other persons

The Impact of That Personality Type On The Relative Existence

The observation that “The Bully is really a very frightened individual” can apply to Type Eights. They often become “The Boss” or “The Assertive One” in order to be in control. In their fear of being harmed or violated or controlled, they work diligently to place themselves in positions of authority.

Once there, they can become insensitive, aggressive, and self-centered. As a result, they lie harm, violate, or try to control others. Peace is never a goal for these fighters.

They will take any steps required to appear to be strong and thereby avoid feeling dependent or weak. As noted, they can become blunt, impatient, resentful, demanding, defensive, intolerant, authoritarian, destructive, over-reactive to an extreme degree. They live every waking second in attack mode. They behave in the most disgusting ways.

Why Personality Type Eight Interrupts Happiness

Ultimately, these warriors can reach a state of fatigue that is debilitating mentally, emotionally, and physically. To assume the ego-state - the persona - of “Chairman of the Board of the Universe” leads to behavior that becomes very tiring. At least in a boxing match the fighters brawl for three minutes but then sit down and rest for one minute.

Type Eights never take a break from engagement and hostility if they feel they are not in total control of all of the people they must deal with, of all places wherever they are, and of all situations.

To be embroiled in identification with the personas of “The Boss” and “The Challenger of All That Seems a Threat” and “The One Who is in Charge of Space and Time” will eventually take a heavy toll. Type Eights wear themselves out and wear out people around them as a result of being so forceful, so insensitive, so hyper-vigilant, and so self-absorbed.

In the office, their bluntness and “bottom line” approach might generate profits for a time, but their overbearing nature will eventually produce an environment of fear and hatred and passive-aggressive conduct among workers that becomes counter-productive in the end.

In traffic, they are overly-aggressive, going into a rage if anyone tries to enter into “their” space. In “personal relations,” they are dictatorial. Their belief that they are in charge and don’t have to “put up with anything” leaves them completely intolerant.

At their worst, these megalomaniacs become so hard-hearted that they can become ruthless. Like non-Realized, unhealthy Type Threes, they can “wish people dead” or actually become murderous.

Also like Threes, when totally absorbed in the worst traits of their personality, they become sociopaths. Who could possibility be happy with those personality traits and the behavior they inspire?

Freedom from Personality Type Eight Effects Via Realization

While realization comes as rarely to unhealthy Type Eights as it comes to unhealthy Type Threes and unhealthy Type Sixes, it can happen. If they live long enough and suffer the consequences of their personality enough, Eights may become tired enough to seek another way.

Should they follow a “path” to full realization, they - just as happens with all personas who abandon personality - can accept the vulnerabilities and limitations of the physical body and stop feeling the constant fear of threat.

No longer self-absorbed, they can know the unicity and can care about “the welfare of others” (relatively speaking). They can become aware and can live deliberately but spontaneously, yet their spontaneity is of a nature that is diametrically opposite that of their spontaneous raging from days past.

As with all who realize, their conduct during the remainder of the AS IF living can take on the flavor of what dualists call “moral behavior.” Why? They had lived with the fear of being harmed, of being violated, or of being controlled by others.

By overcoming their false perception that everything is a threat - and by relinquishing identification with the physical body - they can also abandon automatically their false perception that they must fight constantly in order to protect themselves. WHO is there to protect?

Their desire to defend (by engaging, controlling, raging, fighting, dominating and overcoming) dissolves if full realization happens.

Research has shown that Fours are the most likely to realize fully and that Eights are the least likely, but any of the nine basic personality types can realize (especially if their personality types have led them far enough into the depths of misery and suffering that they become willing to seek relief).

Maharaj showed that no matter which of the nine types is their primary type, most will never realize. So it is.

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION

If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:

"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 

"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 

"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

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