Wednesday, March 20, 2024

FREEDOM FROM SHIFTING BETWEEN STATES OF HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS

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FREEDOM FROM SHIFTING BETWEEN STATES OF HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS

“A dual-minded person is unstable in all ways.”

-Yeshu’a

“Self-identification with the body-mind is the poison that brings bondage.

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

 “The dissolution of personality is followed always by a sense of great relief, as if a heavy burden has fallen off.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

Addressing “The Big Four”: The Sources of Instability and Being Unstable Mentally

(Continued)

 The words of a former co-host on this site, Louise of Cape Town, South Africa, often described a style of functioning which any sane and reasonable human would choose while traveling along the “path” to full realization and while traveling through the remainder of the relative existence.

The problem: for the non-realized masses, choice is not an option.

Humans’ thoughts lead to their words, and their words lead to their actions. Where is there any chance at all - when unconscious and subconscious thoughts and words - control humans’ action? There is no chance.

The explanation I’ve used for decades is this:

Take choice to point to the presence of alternatives as opposed to the no-choice available to the non-realized masses.

Pavlov’s dogs were totally warped, made to behave unnaturally. Dogs normally salivate when they smell meat that they are about to be served. But when conditioned to salivate when they hear the bell on a metronome, they behave insanely and unnaturally.

They salivate when hearing a bell but smelling nothing. They have been made abnormal. They no longer can choose what they do and what they do not do.

The same happens with humans who have been conditioned programmed, acculturated, domesticated, brainwashed and indoctrinated: they too behave unnaturally and insanely. Why?

Because programming, conditioning, acculturation, domestication, brainwashing and indoctrination drive and control all thoughts - and therefore - all words and actions.

Like Pavlov’s dogs, persons who have been conditioned, programmed, etc. have no alternative but to react in the way that their conditioning, programming, etc., dictate.

No choice happens when personas are assumed as identities or when imaginary ego-states blindly determine what persons do (even as they believe that they are the authors of their existence and even as they believe they are do-ers).

Conditioning, programming, etc., block and cancel any and all alternatives and assure that persons will be blindly and unconsciously and subconsciously driven.

The example I’ve offered for decades is this:

Consider how traveling in a car compares to being driven through life: if a person is being driven, in a car, then there are three places in the car where that person can be and one place where that person cannot be.

The three places where a person being driven can be are in the passenger seat, in the back seat, or locked in the trunk / the boot. The one place the person cannot be is behind the steering wheel. Why? Because it was not said that “the person is driving himself”; it was said that “the person is being driven.”

What is the result? The person being driven has no choice about where the car goes, how fast or slow the car goes, how safely or dangerously the car goes, or whether the car continues along the road or veers off the road and into a ditch or over the side of a cliff.

And that describes the lifestyle of persons who are conditioned, programmed, etc. They will live an unstable existence, sometimes moving quickly and sometimes not feeling like moving at all;

they will sometimes abide safely but will sometimes abide dangerously; they will sometimes travel in a sane fashion and other times they will drive recklessly and wreck everything.

The masses who are conditioned, programmed, etc., to allow the hidden agendas of each of their false, personal identifications (especially the agendas of desire and fear) will not be driven by making conscious choices.

They will not operate under the auspices of the neocortex (which is responsible for objective and / or rational understanding). To the contrary, with the neocortex having been bypassed, sidestepped, and disengaged, that is robbing them of abiding in a natural and easy manner;

robbing them of being able to be quiet; rendering them unable to ignore irrational thoughts; robbing them of the ability to abide effortlessly and without resistance; and robbing them of the ability to witness without involvement.

Instead, they will be driven by the subconscious agenda of the basal ganglia (which is in charge of driving humankind’s most primal instincts) and by the limbic system (which is in charge of triggering emotions and assuring that they will abide constantly in a state of  emotional intoxication).

The result: non-realized humans have no ability to be objective, to witness purely, to perceive accurately, or to avoid being driven by their emotions as they abide in the unstable fashion of one who is emotionally intoxicated.

So a major relative existence problem is that conditioning, programming, etc. remove choice as an option because they drive persons to operate blindly on “auto pilot.” If you could merely choose between that mode and the mode that followed, of course you would choose the mode described above.

But note this, Louise: because you were able to live in that AS IF style for a time shows that (a) it can happen and that (b) it can also happen with other seekers and that (C) it can happen with you again.

Louise once asked: “How can these ‘shifts’ stop and how can I fixate in a natural and peaceful fashion of AS IF living for the remainder of the manifestation?”

The consideration: Look to certain of your own words for the key to the answer:

“natural and easy experience”:

The use of experience reveals vestiges of identification with the body-mind-personality triad. The consciousness is what is at this point. It can ONLY witness (or “watch” as you said). It cannot experience. I experience nothing. I do witness all.

“the mind quiet”:


There is the second clue to explain the shifts from a state of happiness to a state of unhappiness. Understand that the “mind” has nothing to do with the consciousness. As has been noted in some of my books, “Consciousness is rooted in the Absolute. The brain is rooted in the elements. The ‘mind’ is rooted in wrong programming and faulty conditioning and lies and concepts and ideas and superstitions and falsehoods.”

Consider the point offered in the title of one of those books for its message might provide a relevant pointer for this part of your “journey”: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS “PEACE OF MIND” (There is Only Peace if You’re Out of Your Mind.)

“with a kind of gentle ignoring of thoughts”:


If you truly come to an understanding of what the “mind” is, and if you truly see the detriment to peace that it is, you would abandon it like an abusive mate, yet conditioning and programming and the influence of “the mind” can prevent persons from abandoning that which is abusive. Your “thoughts” are a major abuser that you must abandon if the “shifts” between states of happiness and unhappiness are to end.

“just experiencing without resistance - watching 'louise' and experiencing what is happening without much involvement”:


Again, that word “experiencing.” Do you now see what “the mind” is telling you? It is telling you that there is “someone” who is experiencing things. You are the consciousness which can witness. Peace happened when you “watched.” Peace ended when you began to “do” again, thinking dualistically that there is some “do-er” or “experiencer” of “negative” experiences who is wanting “positive” experiences. See the duality there?

There is no “you” to experience what “the mind” is telling you that you are experiencing. You are, but you are not experiencing. Understand that and the misery-generating wanting and desiring will end, along with the misery-generating fear that you won't ever have what you want. I want nothing, can own nothing, can gain nothing, and can lose nothing.

A person can sign a contract and think he / she “has” a house. A judge with the stroke of a gavel can make very clear what an illusion it is to think that you own that home! But how could a quantity of energy, which is what the consciousness is, “have” or “own” or “lose” or “gain” anything? It cannot, and understanding that pointer can bring about an end to the happiness / unhappiness “shifts.”

“absence of a memory stream from the past”:

Again, you’ve embedded the answer to your own question. The shift you describe is rooted in “memory,” in the notion that (1) in the past you had something you desired but do not have it now and so you feel as if something is missing or (2) in the past you had a shot at attaining something but failed or (3) something in your past was so much better than what is now in your “present” (or what is not now in your present).

All memories are distortions, triggering unreasonable desires or misconceived fears. Illusions from the past are upgraded by the impure consciousness, so persons now deemed to be “missing from your life” are idealized by “the mind” into something far greater than was the case; or, memories of past offenses are exaggerated and assigned far greater significance than is the case. All memories are much ado about the nothing that they are.

Earlier, a pointer from a realized guide was mentioned: “A dual-minded person is unstable in all ways.” If it is stability that you want, then dual-mindedness must go. That means your belief is duality must go and your belief in the validity of “your mind” must go.

If you would stabilize, then you must abide as the Absolute. Meaning? Meaning that the blockages which prevent the consciousness from seeing Reality and truth must be completely removed so that the consciousness can once again function in its pre-manifested, no concept, non-dual “condition.”

That will remove those “problematic” delusions such as thoughts, experiences, and memories and will fix you firmly in touch with the stable, non-shifting Reality.”

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

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