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FREEDOM FROM SHIFTING BETWEEN STATES OF HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS

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FREEDOM FROM SHIFTING BETWEEN STATES OF HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS

“A dual-minded person is unstable in all ways.”

-Yeshu’a

“Self-identification with the body-mind is the poison that brings bondage.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj
 

“The dissolution of personality is followed always by a sense of great relief, as if a heavy burden has fallen off.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

“You are so used to the support of concepts that when your concepts leave you, although it is your true state, you get frightened and try to cling to them again.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

Addressing “The Big Four”: The Sources of Instability and Being Unstable Mentally

(Continued)

Another contributor to unhappiness (and to instability, which assures that periods of happiness will be regularly interrupted by periods of unhappiness) is a belief in the concept of “time.” That concept plays a major role in generating illusions that result in unhappiness and instability because

(1) “linear time” is about division, separation, and the dualistic concepts of “this” being more special than “that” and “this day being better than that one” and “holy days being more important than other ‘regular’ days”

and because

(2) just as current distortions will be “future memories,” so past distortions are your “current memories.”

First, time.  Consider how time is used to reinforce the dualistic concepts of “different from” and “better than” and “more special than” and “less special than.”

For those arising to go to work, 5 AM or 6 AM or 7 AM might be considered a “bad” time when an alarm is heard. Later, “noon” might be “good” if a lunch break is available. 5 PM is “better” if works ends then. 

“Time” enslaves. It sets persons up to “experience” “up’s” and “down’s” - as well as periods of contentment and discontentment - throughout any “24-hour period.”

Then, those days become weeks in the minds of persons tied to “time” concepts. According to some, therefore, “Mondays” are “bad” but “Wednesdays” are an improvement since they represent “Hump Day” and since the week is considered to be a downhill coast from there.

Fridays and Saturdays are “good,” and “Sundays” are “holy” and “more special” than the other six days of the week. If programmed and conditioned with the typical Anglo-Saxon mentality, one day is for rest and relaxing and taking it easy, while six days are for working and not relaxing and not taking it easy.

That Germanic / Teutonic work will set you free” belief system inspires cultural programming which sets humans up for an unconscious, unquestioned acceptance that it's normal and acceptable to believe that a week's ratio of rest-to-work should be 14.28% : 85.72%. 

That is, 14% of a human's week is okay for rest but the other 86% of a human's week should be set aside for work. You want to spend more than one day a week for relaxing and taking it easy? Then you are useless to the Motherland, so you can go to hell. Better yet, you can die, you lazy, worthless bum.

He who is stabilized and who takes it easy - without interruption - is unacceptable or strange in cultures where instability and chaos are “minimized” and “normalized” with such conditioning statements as:

“Hey, life is all about ups and downs. Suck it up and get used to it.” Many modern cultures thus endorse instability and justify their chaos and disorder on an individual basis, on a national basis throughout the year, and on an international basis as well

That will always result in “personal” instability; that will result in a nation that is often in disarray; and that will result in some international crises and wars, guaranteed. And it will all be considered “normal” and “acceptable” among a conditioned population.

The concept of “various months” also generates a sense of differentiation and thus mood instability: “Winters are too cold and dark and dreary, but summers are too hot.”

Rather than enjoying uninterrupted stability (no matter what name someone gives to the time of the week or the time of the month or the time of the year) linear time distinctions guarantee a sense of separation and instability and shifting moods

The result is a planet populated with self-absorbed persons who are trapped in “The Goldilocks Syndrome,” so these types of “thoughts” and “words” become commonplace:

“This time of year is too hot but that time of year is too cold”; “this partner is too hot but that one was too cold”; and “you cooked this egg too hard but the one yesterday was too soft.”

Trapped in such differentiation, only “perfection” is acceptable, but the concept of “perfect” - when applied to anything in the relative - is as bogus as all concepts;

therefore, no consistent sense of satisfaction or acceptance or neutrality or joy will happen among the non-realized who are trapped in concepts and time distinctions and beliefs about what constitutes “perfection” and what constitutes “not perfection.”

Because “different” days and “different” months are assigned different levels of “goodness” or “badness,” moods can become unstable as a result of nothing more than labeling.

Next, the labeling of some days or weeks as “holidays” (“holy days”) takes the instability to new heights as not only are “hours” and “days” given good or bad labels, but such dualistic labels are also applied to “months” and “seasons” and “years.”

Even as they proclaim “I love this time of year,” few are aware of how emotionally-intoxicated and completely unstable they become every year during the “holidays,” be those celebrations called Deepawali, Liberation Day or Independence Day, Halloween, The Day of the Dead, 

Thanksgiving, Ramadan, Easter, Spring Break, Advent, Bodhi Day, Christmas, Kwanzaa, Purim, Hanukkah, Eid-al-Adha, New Year’s, Rosh Hashanah, Al-Hijra, or some other “special” event.

And how many of those few who might become aware of that annual pattern would be willing to abandon their seasonal going and doing and zooming in order to allow sanity and stability to manifest?

How much truth can be involved when some think something is “good” but others think it is “bad”? Consider “Thanksgiving” in the U.S.: 

most citizens believe that the concept on which the holiday is based is certainly “good”: a “new nation” was founded that is based in Christian doctrine. (“A Christian theocracy here is ‘good’ but an Islamic theocracy there would be ‘bad’.”)

If the 150,000,000 to 180,000,000 who were slaughtered in the conquest of “the Americas” had a voice, they might beg to differ about the noble connotation assigned by the masses to the U.S. “Thanksgiving holiday.”

Non-Christians and people living on other parts of the globe might have no opinion about the holiday or might consider it nonsense. “Good” . . . “bad” . . . “indifferent”? Where is the stability?

Only the realized, aware that it is all conceptual (and therefore all much ado about nothing) are free of being “swayed” by any emotionalism around events dreamed up by men and women. 

They are also free of any emotionally-intoxicating “memories” of events such as “past holidays” that were better because of “this” or “that” which is now “missing.”

Similarly, two billion persons would claim that it is “good” to celebrate a virgin birth during “the Christmas holidays.” [It might best be labeled, Magical Thinking Day.] Four billion non-Christians who claim affiliation with other religions, however, would consider the holiday to be a celebration of infidels or “wrong believers.”

Some dismiss the celebration as one based in pagan-based fiction, Christianity having been the twenty-third religion (not the first) which was based on the belief that a savior was supposedly born of a virgin.

Is it clear that the concept of linear time sets the stage for “up’s” and “down’s,” for instability, and for fluctuations between happiness and unhappiness to happen throughout the year, throughout the months, throughout any given week, throughout any given day, and even throughout any given hour?

Add in the physical, mental and intellectual fluctuations that occur throughout any given 30-day time-frame and the result is a very unstable population planet-wide. 

Are you beginning to see how multi-faceted the factors are that contribute to instability and to the subsequent shifting from various states of comfort and discomfort, from happiness to unhappiness?

Are you seeing that anything that is “multi-” in nature is a fraud and that peace and stability can only happen if fixated in the singularity of the non-dual, no-concept reality of the unicity? 

It is in abidance as the real and true unicity, which can be understood after abandoning belief in all fictionalized multiplicities, that peace and stability happen consistently throughout the manifestation.

Among the realized, there is no time. There is no differentiation by second, minute, hour, day, month, season, year, decade, century, or millennium. There is only continuity and steadiness. 

What significance could I possibly give to a man-made concept such as “a season” when I have always been and always shall be? Understand that, and be at peace.

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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