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FREEDOM FROM SHIFTING BETWEEN STATES OF HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS

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FREEDOM FROM SHIFTING BETWEEN STATES OF HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS

“A dual-minded person is unstable in all ways.”

-Yeshu’a

“Self-identification with the body-mind is the poison that brings bondage. “

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj 

“The dissolution of personality is followed always by a sense of great relief, as if a heavy burden has fallen off.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

Realization is but the opposite of ignorance.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

“You are so used to the support of concepts that when your concepts leave you, although it is your true state, you get frightened and try to cling to them again.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

Addressing “The Big Four”: The Sources of Instability and Being Unstable Mentally

(Continued)

Explaining why persons seem to grasp the understanding and then seemingly “lose” it, Maharaj explained, “You are so used to the support of concepts that when your concepts leave you, although it is your true state, you get frightened and try to cling to them again.”

Similarly, I replied to Louise in Cape Town, S.A. when the same happened with her: “The circumstance you describe is typical among the persons of the planet who “experience” moments of happiness or who enter into a peaceful position of neutrality, only to find that soon they are once again unhappy or taking “positions” that create disturbances.

“Positions” can only be taken by ego-states, by false identities, and will never allow peace to happen consistently. Why? Because before “positions” can be stated in words, they first manifest in the form of “thoughts,” and thoughts are generated by the fictional (and always distorted) “mind” wherein is stored the false belief in all of those assumed identities which take “positions.”

The prerequisite for peace is stability. The prerequisite for stability - for fixating in a state of happiness or contentment or neutrality rather than constantly shifting between states of happiness and unhappiness - is fixation in the no-concept, non-dual, zero concepts, no-identities reality.

In addition to those relative dynamics already discussed which interrupt peace and stability, there are other factors that should also be considered.

When a former ego-state was (a) assumed as an identity and (b) when the memory of that ego-state is recalled and (c) when it believes that it was interfered with or hurt or threatened or brought to an end by the actions of a former co-dependent that was helping to support the illusion of that identity, then peace and stability face another obstacle, namely, archetypal messaging.

Prior to fixation in a state of realization, “floyd” “experienced” that double challenge to peace and stability. “Husband’s” emoting generated the thought, “She abandoned me.” In the process, “Floyd the Homeowner” “died”; “Floyd the Family Man” “died”; “Floyd the Father” “died”; “Floyd the Lover” “died”; and if space permitted another dozen or more false identities could be catalogued.

The illusion, therefore, was not just that “I” was being killed but that “I” was being killed a dozen times over. What a hopeless and miserable mindset. To compound the perceived pain and “loss” and suffering, an archetypal message triggered another physical and mental and emotional response.

Archetypes are instinctive (genetically-transferred) roles which exist even prior to the assignment or acceptance of all of the other roles that persons take as a definition of “who they are.” As a result of millions of years of such coding, some of the instinctive roles are the same as culturally-assigned roles, such as “partner,” “father,” “mother,” etc.

Archetypes manifest as images which carry dualistic connotations, all rooted in the multi-million-year-totality of human experience. They are all based in what has - and has not - assisted in the survival of the species. Thus . . .

“up” is a “positive” archetype whereas “down” is a “negative” archetype; “dark” is a “negative” archetype while “light” is a “positive” archetype; and “together” is a “positive” archetype while “alone” is a concept stored at a genetic level that carries a “negative” connotation.

When a person said to “floyd,” “I am leaving you,” not only did those words trigger fear and / or anger among the dozens of assumed but false identities that imagined that they were being threatened. Those words also engaged a physical, mental, and emotional component that lies at the inherited core of every human.

Those components were as ancient as humankind, and they rose from a subconscious (subliminal) level into the (warped) conscious level and sent the message, “You are in immediate danger! Your very existence is being threatened!! This is truly an existential threat to you, really, no joke!!!”

Thus, the lies racing forth from the agendas of a host of false personality identifications called for a “fight” response and a “flight” response and, ironically, even a “freeze” response. And when identities believe that they are being threatened, the flight nor freeze responses are seldom the typical responses.

[See the content of the book CASTING LIGHT ON THE DARK SIDE OF RELATIONSHIPS for further discussion of this phenomenon and you’ll understand why 59% of all murders of females in the U.S., and 41% of the murders of all males, happen during a “breakup.” When the programming and archetypal perceptions combine to generate such levels of distortion that one believes she / he is being killed a dozen times over, you can understand why 50% of the time “flight” is not considered as an option and “fight to the death” becomes a typical reaction.]

Is it becoming clearer exactly what the non-realized are “up against” in an effort to stabilize in a state of peace and harmony? Is it becoming obvious why the non-realized are constantly shifting between states of happiness and unhappiness?

Is it becoming all the more obvious why those guides (those specks of “re-purified” or now-unblocked consciousness) which share the pointers that can end human suffering, propose that realization is at the heart of being free of the distortions and illusions that perpetuate such high levels of unhappiness (or even misery) planet-wide?

[Remember: Maharaj’s later pointer on that topic was this: Realization is but the opposite of ignorance.”

Do you see now why realized teachers suggest that, when peace and stability disappear, that you should ask, “WHO” (what persona or personas) thinks she / he is being hurt or was hurt? “WHO” thinks he / she was wronged? “WHO” is ‘experiencing’ the pain and suffering and misery that is being triggered by a memory rooted in distortion?”

When the “WHO” is seen to be an image or a mirage (either of the archetypal type or the culturally-assigned type) then peace and stability can return as the focusing on “I am an abandoned husband” or “I am a wronged wife” fades from the (warped) consciousness and the “I AM . . . only” becomes the focus once again.

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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