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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING TOTALLY INDEPENDENT

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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING TOTALLY INDEPENDENT

“...You are afraid of freedom!”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

[Continued from yesterday]

“ . . . You are afraid of freedom!”
---Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

DEFINING FREEDOM and LOSING FREEDOM through CONVENTIONAL SOURCES (cont.)

To review: One dictionary defines freedom as the absence of ceremony and the ability to live naturally.

Ceremonies are intended to inspire the masses to recite in unison; to knell and rise in unison; among some religions, to drink blood and body (symbolically for some, “actually” for some, inexorably linking dogma with cannibalism and vampirism for nearly 2000 years); and to march in lockstep - including physically and mentally and emotionally and spiritually.

Cultures find anathema those who take the road less traveled, who march in a relaxed manner to the beat of a different drummer, or who look widespread insanity and mass ignorance in the eye and shout: “NO!”

In cultures around the globe, uniformity is rewarded, phoniness is rewarded, participation in ceremonies is rewarded, acceptance of commonly-held (but false) beliefs is rewarded, form over substance is rewarded, the unnatural is rewarded, and the supernatural is rewarded. Spurned are authenticity, genuineness, substance over form, realness, and that which is natural.

Visitors from over sixty-two different nations have made contact here; therefore, the invitation again is to see what ceremonies are being used in those cultures to block freedom and peace and sanity even as the discussion here deals with the adverse effects of U.S. ceremonies.

Consider the part of the definition above which suggests that freedom involves the ability to live naturally rather than ceremonially and unnaturally. Consider the difference in the relative existence as lived by those who are restricted, uptight, retentive, and unnatural vs. the unrestricted, the relaxed, the free and the natural.

For example, how natural is it to engage in ceremonies that require persons to walk the way soldiers walk: to be stiff, to be anal-retentive, to think and talk and walk and behave in a lockstep fashion? By contrast, see how, in nature, such stiff and uptight and inflexible and laborious and anal behavior does not happen at all.

Would sane people want to gather together and participate in ceremonies which endorse cookie-cutter-type dressing and walking and thinking and behaving in a stiff and rigid and inflexible manner, as soldiers and police and others do? Or would sane people rather gather together and relax and take it easy?

Could stiff and rigid ceremonial behavior ever be considered natural, or would relaxing be more “according to nature”?

Could taut and inflexible ceremonial behavior, by any stretch of the imagination, be considered natural?

In each of the pairs of options above, the first illustrates the way that the non-realized move through the relative existence; the second shows the natural way, the way that the “realized Nisargan” functions throughout the remainder of the post-realization relative existence.

Of course the Nisargan manner is not only about lying back, sleeping and relaxing; however, no matter what happens - working, husbanding, wifing, driving, walking, parenting, whatever - it happens in that same relaxed, non-retentive, laid back fashion.

Why do cultures dream up such stiff and rigid ways of walking / marching? Because if they can encourage some persons in the culture to look alike, dress alike, and walk alike, then they can train then to think alike, talk alike, and behave alike.

Then, the leaders in the culture can report that those people are heroes because they follow orders exactly and without question and are willing to die (but preferably kill) for whatever the culture defines as valuable and necessary.

Afterwards (after programming and conditioning), they can put those persons on display in local and national ceremonies and parades as they model, for all to see, their rigid and stiff and retentive manner, subliminally giving widespread credibility to their totally unnatural way of functioning / performing.

The leaders / programmers / conditioners can have those persons put on public display and demonstrate the way that the onlookers should also think in unison, talk in unison, and behave in the same rigid and unbending and uniform manner, questioning nothing and following orders and never relaxing.

How interesting that the term “standing at attention” actually requires a rigidity that removes all ability to pay any attention at all as some lock their knees and cut off circulation and faint. And that is a metaphor for the way that the masses function:

they are programmed and conditioned to be rigid, to be puppet-like, to be clones of each other and turned into automatons by their leaders, to become “locked up” (i.e., not free and not natural) and to lose the ability to circulate freely and actually lose all consciousness in the end.

How long can the difference in “free and natural” vs. “locked up and unnatural” be ignored? For most, until the end of the manifestation. For you, the difference can be understood if you complete in order all of the steps which can shift the consciousness from identification with the false to an understanding of the Absolute and the natural functioning of the totality.

Then, you can be free and abide is the nisarga (natural) fashion.

If you look objectively at the ceremonies in your own culture, can you see how many of them involve the same kind of rigidity and stiffness and uniformity described earlier? Do you see that your culture would have you moving in unison, reciting in unison, standing in unison, and / or sitting in unison with all of the other elements in your culture?

Can you see how many of the rituals and ceremonies of your culture attempt to make people move about in a lockstep fashion, thinking in the same way, talking in the same way, all behaving in the same way in every circumstance, and all behaving in the same rigid and unbending and uniform manner?

Especially in the West, how often during your upbringing were you ever invited to question what you were told? How many times were you told that you did not have to blindly accept what leaders say, including religious leaders, government leaders, or big business leaders?

How much time was spent encouraging you to relax and take it easy vs. time spent programming and conditioning you to stay as busy as possible in order to accumulate as much as possible? If you answer honestly, is it not then also clear why persons become a slave to authority, become accustomed to blindness rather than to seeing clearly, and fall right into the go-do-zoom mentality of their culture?

Is it any wonder that in the U.S. that the “we’ll teach you to relax” industry is now a multi-billion-dollar-a-year business? Is it any wonder that what they offer is a limited plan that can help you relax for fifteen minutes in the morning before leaving the house and entering the rush hour traffic that soon eliminates whatever degree of relaxation you might have experienced during your fifteen-minute “meditation time” or “quiet time”?

Is it any wonder that, in the East, a brief period in the samadhi state is touted? Some have said, “You just don’t get it, mister. Fifteen to thirty minutes in the samadhi state has curative effects. Science can show you the actual, positive, physiological changes that occur.”

One person said some time back, “If you would take a few minutes to Google ‘health benefits + meditation,’ you might learn something.” And the reply was:

“If you might unlearn everything, you might fixate in a constant state of samadhi without all of that ‘going into samadhi’ and ‘coming out of samadhi’ that you presently experience.

Then, whatever ‘benefits’ you speak of would come not like a light, occasional sprinkling but would manifest more like a flood that would wash away once and for all whatever it is that you are seeking to be free of via your fifteen or thirty or sixty-minute sessions.

But most do not want to be totally free. You want to engage in their religious-spiritual exercises, and many also want to be seen doing that. The draw of corporate worship or corporate meetings is that person can publicly display what they take to be their advanced level of spirituality.

Meanwhile, they open their services or meetings by singing or chanting words in unison, and they close their services or meetings by singing or chanting in unison. They rise in unison, sit in unison, bow their heads in unison, or raise their heads in unison;

among some whose religion is as far right as their politics, they pray in unison, then sway in unison, then swoon in unison, then fall about in unison, and they even roll around on the floor in unison.

And all the while, they think their activities and exercises are making them free, when their movements are actually limited to the narrow confines of group-think, group-talk, and group-behavior.

They will come here to explain how free they are (“free as a bird - flying, diving, turning, swooping as I please”), but they are totally blind to the fact that their flying, diving, turning and swooping is all orchestrated by the movements of the surrounding masses.

Thinking they are “individualized and unique,” they are totally unaware of the fact that they are a part of a synchronized mass, moving up when the masses move up and moving down when the masses move down, just as some birds do as they move across the sky in a manner that parallels the movement of all others among the flock.

Certainly, a bird in such a mass of birds moving in unison - if it could think and believe - would think and believe that it is free, but the fact is that it is trapped in the prison of the masses. And in that state, every action will be determined by the shadowy masses - never by the light, never by the pure consciousness that allows the Realized to be free of the dark influence of the light-less masses.

Remain attached to the domesticated and acculturated masses and to the way that they think and talk and behave and you will have no chance at all of finding the road not taken by the masses . . . the one path that leads to Truth.

And remain a part of the masses that will never find the truth and you will - as is the case with the masses - never be totally free.

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.


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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

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"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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