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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING TOTALLY INDEPENDENT

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OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING TOTALLY INDEPENDENT

“...You are afraid of freedom!”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

WHEN FREEDOM and TRUTH ARE LOST through SHARING “CONVENTIONAL WISDOM” AND BELIEFS in GROUPS AND INSTITUTIONS

[Continued from earlier]

Here, there is nothing that is believed, so there is no one here who wants you to believe anything, either. Here, the invitation is to be free of all that you have been programmed, conditioned, acculturated, indoctrinated, brainwashed, and domesticated to believe so that you can be free, period.

--F.H.

As Maharaj offered many warnings to his visitors - to stay away from the "Big Name Teachers," for example - so too are warning offered here for consideration.  

One warning for years has involved the trap of group think and the giving to groups and institutions the power to determine what you think and say and do. 

Is there any illusions here that such pointers and discussions are having any widesperard or long-lasting effects? Of course not. In fact, the evidence proves the exact opposite.

For example, the information to follow was first shared twelve years ago, but here we go again. current happenings showing that there is still a "need" among the masses to consider the pointers. Likely? Heck no. But the sharing process continues:

Many of the reasons that the non-realized think and talk and emote and behave as they do have been seen: early development of a personality in an effort to cope with confusion and threats and fears that manifest when raised in dysfunctional families in dysfunctional societies on a dysfunctional planet;

early entrapment in personality, usually by the age of six, that causes a fixation at that point which drives persons unconsciously to think and to behave as six-year-olds in many of their adult-age situations;

programming, conditioning, acculturation, brainwashing, indoctrination, and domestication; 

venues, groups, and institutions which offer no pointers to truth for the few that do seek but instead repeat ancient myths and superstitions that are now the modern dogma which is accepted with blind faith as truth by 97% of the persons on the planet;

an inability or unwillingness to question, the domestication process having suppressed an early tendency among children to question nonsense when it is heard; 

"teachers" that are serving their own personal interests rather than serving up the pointers which can guide seekers along all of the steps which must be taken in an exact order if seekers are ever to realize.

So that is why the masses think and talk and emote and behave as they do, in a childish, illogical, unreasonable manner that leaves them believing that natural events have supernatural causes; that leaves them driven by the false content of a fiction-filled "mind";

and that leads to the contradictory belief they are a being that can be punished or rewarded by "a Supreme Being" and that some day they too can be also be "a Supreme Being," forever, if they play their cards right. Eternal selfness / Selfness . . . that is the desire of the masses.

That sets the masses up to believe the lie that this temporary condition of beingness can be perpetuated forever with the same mind and with the same personality / personalities and with the same special person (unless they remarry . . . and remarry . . . and remarry . . . then their belief-based scenario about the "afterlife" can become complicated). So that is why they think the way they do, but how do they think, exactly, and what are the results?

HOW THEY THINK

The thinking that is typical among the masses leaves them driven by fears of such proportion and of such darkness that they often reach phobic proportions. That triggers the fight or flight or freeze syndrome, and the fights have become, relatively speaking, of an often-fatal character (which will be discussed in the "how they behave" section later).

George Orwell's anti-duality novel 1984 provides some insight into the faulty thought patterns that typify the way that the masses think: he spoke of the kind of "Group Think" that comes about when the propaganda (which is still being spread today by governmental, religious, spiritual, business, and military leaders) results in a collective, public "mind."

It has been noted here that there is no "your mind"; there is only "their mind" which has been adopted and assumed to be one's own. In the novel 1984, Orwell shows that the only result of being exposed to such propaganda and accepting it without question is . . . duality-based thinking and talking and behaving:

the masses engage in what he called "doublethink," simultaneously accepting as truth two mutually contradictory beliefs. (One example offered here: "there is a God who loves you unconditionally but who can nevertheless judge you, can find you lacking, and will cast you into a place of physical, mental, and emotional torture, forever";

or, "there is a 'universe' that will see to it that you cycle through one unpleasant series of lives after another until you grow and achieve and reach a certain height.)

Consider this analysis in The Theory and Practice of Oligarchical Collectivism:

The keyword here is blackwhite. Like so many of 1984's Newspeak words, this word has two mutually contradictory meanings. Applied to an opponent, it means the habit of impudently claiming that black is white, in contradiction of the plain facts. 

Applied to a Party member, it means a loyal willingness to say that black is white when Party discipline demands this. But it means also the ability to believe that black is white, and more, to know that black is white, and to forget that one has ever believed the contrary. 

This need for history to be rewritten demands a continuous alteration of the past, made possible by the system of thought which really embraces all the rest, and which is known in Newspeak as doublethink. 

Doublethink (duality) is basically the power of holding two contradictory beliefs in one's mind simultaneously, and accepting both of them.

To expose the nonsense that the masses accept as truth, satirist Stephen Colbert contrived a word that he uses to point to the tendency among the masses to take beliefs and concepts that are known to be false (known at least at some core level, at the inner resource, inner guru level) but then accept them as truth. 

"The 2020 election in the U.S. was stolen"; "We in Russia are acting in a defensive, not in an offensive, manner"; "There's nothing that can done to stop school massacres in the U.S."; "Americans have a right and a need to own weapons made for the military to use to kill the highest numbers of people possible"; "The Democratic Party's policies are causing these shootings"; blah, blah, blah.

Colbert uses the word "truthiness" to point to the lies that persons refuse to admit are false (or that are deemed to be "half-truths" . . . more duality) but that are accepted when the drive to engage in doublethink pushes back against all natural tendencies to bring into consciousness an awareness of a lie as a lie and to state, unequivocally, that BS is BS.

Now, what is commonplace is not "Truth" but is just "truthiness" . . . beliefs that have just enough of a ring of validity to convince persons that the beliefs must be true. 

Shared regularly with visitors is the connection between name-droppers and the big name teachers, between those who mention Maharaj, or who claim to have "studied" with him;

who co-op a tiny piece of the teachings; who add elements that will have mass appeal; who thereby distort the teachings; and who thereafter fill bookshelves and venues with those who are seekers of more, not less; who desire knowledge; who want their egos massaged; who buy into something while rejecting any notions about nothing . . . about nothingness.

Colbert says that truthiness is a "truth" that a person claims to know intuitively - supposedly, "from the gut" - without regard to evidence, logic, intellect, examination, or fact.

Colbert explained, "We're not talking about truth; we're talking about something that seems like truth - the truth that we want to exist," he explained. "Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but everyone is not entitled to their own facts. [Nowadays], facts matter not at all. Perception is everything. I really feel a dichotomy (duality) in the American populace. What is important? What you want to be true, or what is true?"

Such is the abnormal norm, when personality and programming and propaganda and dogma bastardize or block the consciousness: the result is that perception trumps pure witnessing; the false trumps facts; and duality trumps non-duality.

One writer recently noted the widespread assumption "that we exist as a permanent, unified, independent being." He sees the widespread absence of understanding reality as "the cause of our most fundamental suffering and anxiety" which results when "we are ignorant of the true nature of our existence."

"Because of our assumption, we cannot fully understand or relate to impermanence (including our own) and the interdependence of all phenomena. 

It sometimes happens that the initial discovery of egolessness can lead to a nihilistic view of things - emptiness being seen as the absence of anything substantial - nowhere to hang our hat, nobody home, "nothing to get hung about," in the words of The Beatles.

"Why bother to build or create anything if it will be gone sooner than later? But penetrating into the actual experience of egolessness further, it seems that we can discover [that which] is open, energetic and without beginning or end."

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.


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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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