LIBERATION (Attaining Freedom from Personality via Realization)

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LIBERATION (Attaining Freedom from Personality via Realization)

“After the information given to you by the mother, that you are a boy or girl, all your further acquisitions [false identities] are by hearsay.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

The Relative Effects of Personality: Fears, Desires and Interrupted Happiness

 (Continuing with the problems that happen when assuming a Type Two Personality style during the relative existence)

The resulting dependency preempts independence for the Two and for those persons who accept the Two’s “help,” and persons who are not free cannot possibly be happy - their baseless protestations to the contrary notwithstanding.

The relative existence of those trapped in the Type Two sphere becomes marked by a lack of energy as Type Twos try to do so much for “others”; becomes marked by selfishness as Twos are really giving with the ulterior motive of trying to get back even more;

becomes marked by working to “help” “others” while Twos ignore their own basic, relative requirements; becomes marked by the building up of resentments since Twos never feel that “others” appreciate adequately their sacrifices;

and

becomes marked by the passive-aggressive behavior that always follows when the Type Two believes that he / she is not getting the degree of love and gratitude that is deserved after all the “help” they have offered.

Why Personality Type Two Interrupts Happiness

Imagine the frustration of needing love, of constantly wanting love, of constantly trying to find love, and of trying - always in vain - to hold onto love in a culture where 62% of those persons who pledge “to love ‘til death do us part” . . . don’t.

Yet the transient nature of “love” is not confined to the U.S. Across the globe, the typical pattern of relationships is to move through the following phases: “stranger” to “acquaintance” to “friend” to “lover” to “spouse or partner” to “enemy” to “mortal enemy.”

The same intransigence marks not only “love relationships” but friendships and partnerships as well. How, therefore, could a Type Two ever be consistently happy when the desire is “to be loved deeply by everyone” while “self”-absorbed persons have no ability to love unconditionally at all and while persons mistake all sorts of personal agendas for “love”?

Much has been written about the illusion of “need.” Much has also been written about the illusion of “love.” As long as a person has a desire to be needed, happiness cannot happen with any degree of continuity.

As long as Type Twos are overly-accommodating, are acting like martyrs, or are being possessive and manipulative, then happiness cannot happen with any degree of continuity. As long as Twos are behaving as overly-sensitive pleasers and controlling manipulators, happiness cannot happen with any degree of continuity.

The misery that accompanies such entrapment in this personality type - or in any of the other eight types - should make clear why those who offer non-dual pointers consistently invite protégés to abandon identification with body, with mind, and with personality.

Freedom from Personality Type Two Effects Via Realization

With realization comes (A) the understanding that there is no “one” that has any need. With realization comes (B) the understanding that no “one” can help any “one.” With realization comes (C) clarity about what love is not and then (D) an end to wasting energy in the search for anything that is illusory.

Lies are stored in the mind; truth can be accessed via the inner resource, contact with which is typically blocked by assumption of personality. When that inner awareness springs forth into the consciousness, then . . .

. . . all beliefs about being a person in need, about being a person who needs help, and about being a person who has great ability to help others . . . all that will end and a lightness of being can happen for the remainder of the manifestation.

But whether realization (and an accompanying lightness of being) happens or not, neither case changes the fact that no “one” exists that can “help,” that no “others” exist that are “separate from” and needing “help,” and that no “one” exists that needs “help” . . . or anything else.

Next, any lightness of being that does happen during the relative existence only comes about after realization, which is then followed by an acceptance of these facts: first, if something happens, such as “being loved,” it happens, and, secondly, if it does not happen, so it is.

Furthermore, the Type Twos’ belief in the dualistic concept that they have a “need to connect” reveals that the Oneness is not understood at all by Type Twos. That failure to understand the unicity fosters a belief in duality and a desire to create dependencies and connections.

To commit to finding the lies and thereby to finding the truth via realization is the course that can free Type Twos of (1) their constant sense of feeling rejected, of (2) their typically feeling hurt, of (3) their feeling that they need to win over everyone and be loved by all,

of (4) their egotism, revealed by their belief that they are so much better than “others” that they are in a position to “help” “others” and of (5) their frustration that results from that constant, nagging sense that they lack the love, the esteem, and the sense of worth that their personality convinces them that they need.

With the coming of realization and the subsequent freedom from being driven by personality, all such nonsense goes.

The following was offered in response to a question about coming to really know or understand another person: “ . . . You’ll never ‘know’ or ‘understand’ any person [because] you’ll never know ‘which person’ (which persona or which personality type) you’re dealing with on any given day.

Have you ever met someone and thought you ‘really knew’ him / her . . . only to scream later, ‘I don’t even know who you are!’ 

Millions in ‘relationships’ eventually feel like fools, like they were ‘fooled’ by someone who put up a false front, a false image, only to discover that their mate, friend, lover, spouse, etc. is a fraud. Of course that will happen, because all personas are fraudulent. 

Thus, to be free of fear, desire, foolishness, and unhappiness, personality must be transcended. But before such transcendence can happen, personality and its fraudulent nature must be understood.

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION

If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:

"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 

"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 

"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

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