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IN TERMS OF “REALIZATION” AS A NON-DUAL PROCESS, THE MATH AIN’T MATHING

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IN TERMS OF “REALIZATION” AS A NON-DUAL PROCESS, THE MATH AIN’T MATHING

“The math ain’t mathing.”

Taraji P. Henson

“You do not need to allow yourself to be taught more; you do not need to work more and more in order to learn more and more; you do not need to add to the body of nonsense and BS which ‘they’ passed on to you via conditioning and programming. You need less of everything, not more of anything. What you need to do is subtract, not add. You need to un-learn; you need to be un-taught.”

--floyd

Ruby Bridges: “Racism is a grown-up disease. Let’s stop using our kids to spread it.

Floyd: “The same applies to all that grown-ups add when forming the minds of kids, including hate, racism, xenophobia, white supremacy, Christian nationalism, beliefs about ‘different from’ and therefore ‘better-than,’ and (per Maharaj) ‘ignorance, stupidity, and insanity’.”

“Go forth, unburdened with ideas and beliefs.”
--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

. . . “Go home, take charge of your father’s business, look after your parents in their old age. Marry the girl who is waiting for you; be loyal, be simple, be humble. Hide your virtue, live silently.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

“ . . . Question wisely. You will find you know nothing for sure - you trust on hearsay.”

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

“A little learning can be a dangerous thing.”

--Alexander Pope

“Anything short of total un-learning is a far-more-dangerous thing, relatively speaking.”

--floyd

“For the supposedly realized to deny the AM-ness is just as delusional as it is for the non-realized to identify solely with the Am-ness.”

--floyd

Using the Deer, not Persons, As the Model

Someone asked why one suggestion in particular is often offered here, namely, using the deer as a model for natural living. He noted correctly that he could not “drop out” and move into the woods and live like a deer, as much as he might like to. He even noted that if he tried it for a while, he would probably not like that lifestyle at all.

The reason that we were talking in the first place was because it had recently become clear to him that what he had been doing so far with his life was not “working,” that his lifestyle was presently marked by misery and suffering and self-destructive acts rather than happiness or lightness, so he was asked: 

“Since your life so far has not been modeled on the deer - or anything else that lives naturally - on whom has your life been modeled?”

He answered, naming several people. Then he was asked, “And how's that been working for you?” After a pause of considerable length for consideration, his reply was: “Got it.” A perceptive young man, he has seen for years how insane “the world” is.

The time had arrived for him to see that he had also caught “the world's” sickness - the Ultimate Sickness, in fact - and that he needs to move the focus to finding the false selves . . . to finding the false personality identifications.

So the recommendation is to use the lifestyle of the deer as a test to contrast (a) natural, ego-free, Nisarga style, AS IF living with (b) the lifestyle of personas and their accompanying egotism. Further, the invitation is to avoid taking the recommendation so literally if one is to find all that can be revealed by the suggestion.

Those with some insight and analytical skills can look beyond the most basic and literal conclusion that “This guy says I have to move to the woods and live like a deer to be happy. That is insane.”

THE DEER

To the contrary, the wise know that one cannot be content if one is not free; the wise can see by observation that deer are quite content most of the time; the wise can see the connection between being content and being perfectly and totally free;

the wise can then find what the deer is free of that persons are not free of; then the wise can find what they are not free of that the deer are free of; and then the wise can see exactly what they must be rid of if they would be free and content.

Here, both types of living have been experienced. I lived as non-realized persons live. For decades now, I have lived as the deer live (but without the freezing in the headlights on a busy highway at night part).

A deer is free of the desire to be seen and to “stand out.” It will typically do what is required to blend in with its environment and “fade into the background.”

A deer does not like to make noise and does not want to be heard. It can move along a thousand-yard path through the woods and tread so gently that a human ten steps away would not hear it.

A deer has no “mind” so it engages in no abnormal thinking. A deer lives naturally, not unnaturally and not supernaturally. A deer does not care about appearance, is not cruel, is not envious, and does not feel entitled;

a deer is not unavailable to its mate and offspring because the deer have not been rendered hard and cold and cruel and detached as a result of that all-too-common type of cold-blooded conditioning and programming referenced in earlier;

a deer is not afraid of the quiet, is not impulsive, is not religious or spiritual; a deer is not self-contradictory or moody or unpredictable or unstable;

a deer will not overeat, does not like chaos, and does not eat fermented berries in an effort to become intoxicated and to try to “escape” or avoid whatever challenges it must face.

 PERSONS

By contrast, a person / persona that is working to establish and maintain a false image wants to be seen. Persons typically do what is required to stand out and to be noticed. Persons exhibit arrogance and egotism, and as they work to create and maintain an image, they want to be heard.

Persons hate the silence and love the noise … especially the noise that they generate, including speeches, informal talks, sermons, diatribes, loud music, lectures, appearances, screaming, shouting, etc.

Persons, with their incessantly-active “minds,” are constantly engaged with and disturbed by their abnormal thoughts. Persons live unnaturally or supernaturally instead of naturally, and persons are often addicted to chaos.

They often use substances or certain destructive behaviors to try to escape, or at least to forget temporarily, the misery or suffering or boredom or turmoil that comes with all of the roles that they have assumed and are playing.

Persons trapped in their ego-based narcissism must surround themselves with other persons in order to have an audience. They need to be seen, and they require constant praise and applause and positive feedback. The deer experience no narcissism.

Narcissism is labeled as a “personality disorder” by professionals, and rightly so. Humans must be attached to one or more personas in order to exhibit the traits of any personality disorder. Deer have no personality, so they have no personality disorders that can disintegrate into full-blown mental problems or even insanity.

As a result of their egotism and body-mind-personality identification, persons care about appearance, can be charming one moment and cruel the next, and can be close one moment and distant the next; the deer, by contrast, are like one that has realized fully: steady as a rock, capable of feeling but incapable of emoting.

Persons, unlike the deer, are envious, feel entitled, are afraid of the quiet, are impulsive, often assume religious or spiritual personas, and are self-contradictory or moody or unpredictable as a result of living a lie and refusing to see that their personality / personalities bring defects and liabilities that mark and mar their relative existence.

Thus, the invitation to look at the “standard,” the deer, to test the degree to which natural living is happening in the relative existence. The deer never fails as a model for applying the principles of Nisarga Yoga:

the deer lives naturally, does not accumulate, has no identity, engages in no destructive or self-destructive behaviors, avoids conflict whenever possible, follows a minimalist lifestyle, avoids excess in all ways, might have a mate and offspring or might not, adheres strictly to the principle of non-attachment, and stays aware and conscious of his surroundings rather than walking about as if asleep.

To know if you are trapped in one or more ego-states, find the honest answer to the question, “Are you living in the fashion of a deer, or are you living the way that the sleepwalking, non-realized masses live out their relative existence?”

 To be continued.

 Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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