Tuesday, March 01, 2022

THE MISUNDERSTANDINGS ABOUT BLISS

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THE MISUNDERSTANDINGS ABOUT BLISS

How many seekers are frustrated by not having attained bliss? How many seekers think that they have failed or that their teacher has failed when what they believe to be bliss does not manifest or when they think that bliss comes on occasion but does not remain?

Here, many visitors / passersby abandon the message before hearing it all and contemplating it all. Why?

The power of their programming and conditioning and domestication and acculturation and indoctrination and brainwashing? Yes, partly. Why else?

For bliss-seekers,  an invitation to focus less on attaining bliss and more on admitting that the symptoms of the Ultimate Sickness are present, including ignorance and insanity, and agreeing that the elimination of those influencers should be the primary task at hand is usually a "turn-off."

Relatedly, ego and egotism can be seen as another obstacle because some are admired for seeking bliss but fewer are admired for being driven by ignorance and insanity, for admitting that, and for addressing those issues.

Those obstacles and beliefs of seekers identify the ones who are at what Maharaj called “the kindergarten level of spirituality.”

How many feel that their goal to become “perfectly spiritual, and thereby perfectly blissful” is being thwarted at every turn?

Maharaj said, “No ambition is spiritual. All ambitions are for the sake of the 'I am'. The ambitions of the so-called Yogis are preposterous. A man's desire for a woman is innocence itself compared to the lusting for an everlasting personal bliss. The mind is a cheat. The more pious it seems, the worse the betrayal.”

Regularly, seekers who speak of “the darkness” and of “higher levels of consciousness” are told that there is no darkness and that there are no levels of consciousness.

The so-called "darkness" in which the non-realized live is not really darkness but is merely an absence of light caused by the blockages that have accumulated, and the consciousness is merely consciousness that is either blocked from seeing accurately - and from seeing truth - or is not.

When so many blockages accumulate, then the light cannot penetrate and all seems dark, but that absence of witnessing the light does not mean that the light is not there. It is simply not observable because of a separation from the source of the light - either because the light has been blocked or because there is nothing available to reflect the light.

The higher level of understanding in regards to this topic is that (1) not only is “no ambition spiritual,” nothing is spiritual; and (2) not only is “the mind a cheat” but the content of the "mind" is actually as much an illusion as the darkness.

If the seeker would “find bliss,” then the seeker must know what bliss is and what it is not. If one that is in kindergarten is sent to the store to buy the materials needed to build a “what-cha-ma-call-it,” the kindergarten-age-child will not have the slightest clue about what he is seeking and neither will anyone else that he asks to help with finding everything required to build a “what-cha-ma-call-it.”

The reason most never “find bliss” is that they are as mistaken about what bliss is and what bliss is not as persons are mistaken about what “the world” is and what it is not.

In order to appreciate the pointers in this series - and in order to end the challenges involved with “occasionally experiencing bliss but not being able to hold on to it” or with “not finding the bliss that others claim they have found” or with “dealing with the frustrations of wanting bliss but not having found it” - the reader is invited to take a few moments to complete the following preparatory exercise:

(A) List all of the ways you would define bliss.

(B) List all of the ways that bliss could be evidenced during the manifestation.

(C) Write a description of what you think the relative existence would look like for you if you were to “attain bliss” once and for all.

Your writings might be used to reveal the prevalent beliefs that exist in regards to bliss and to distinguish between myth and fact as the discussion continues.

Over the years, so many have come to complain about the fact that - after all of their seeking - “permanent bliss still has not come.” They were told that they may as well complain, “I have dedicated my life to climbing mountains and searching in the nests of eagles for that one unique case where a fish is living among the birds of prey.”

They are searching in the relative for that which will never be found in the relative; furthermore, they could be asked, “And exactly what form of fish do you think can fly into the mountains and live without being in the water and live without consequence among that which would eat the fish?” They are searching in nests for that which is not in nests.

And it is as if they answer, “Well, my wise teacher has spoken often of such a fish.” Then the reply would be, “You cannot differentiate wisdom from ignorance, so rather than search for such a fish out of water, it is suggested that you search for a different teacher.”

Those who have been asked to define specifically the “bliss” that they seek either parrot some words they have heard but have not understood or they parrot the words that were used by “holy men” or “holy books” in order to program them.

One of the invitations offered earlier was to “list all of the ways you would define bliss.” When that exercise is conducted during non-duality retreats here, it is rare that even one of the responses comes close to identifying bliss as it can happen during the relative existence.

Most efforts to define what “bliss” is revealed no evidence at all of what the respondents know, what they have come to realize by having tapped into the inner guru, but were a regurgitation of concepts they have collected from such sources as Hinduism or Buddhism:

“Bliss is what comes at the end of the cycles of reincarnation when desire and suffering both end.”

“Bliss is liberation from the effects of karmic rebalancing.”

“Bliss is finally being free from rebirths.”

"Bliss is freedom from pain and suffering."

So it can be seen that even among those reading “Advaitin pointers,” many seek not the purest messages which non-duality can offer but are seeking a blend of non-duality (or pseudo-non- duality) and other concepts to which they are yet attached.

The responses to those statements will be invitations to reach a different understanding . . . an understanding rooted in logic and reason rather than in concept-filled texts. First, to the statement that “bliss is freedom from pain and suffering.”

Freedom from that misperception requires an understanding of the difference in “pain” on the one hand and “suffering” on the other.

Pain is of the body, suffering (and misery) is of the "mind." Pain is felt because of nerve and brain activity, a process that is usually considered to be an asset to the degree that it can reveal physical problems that might otherwise go undetected or to the degree that it can bring an end to activities that are damaging to the body.

For one person to pick up a hot pan without experiencing pain is to assure that far greater damage will come to that person than to one who can feel pain and would immediately drop a hot pan before any further physical damage occurs. To explain in more detail:

For the body to no longer feel pain, you would have to undergo some degree of paralysis, nerve damage, or brain damage. You would be deprived of one tool that is intended to protect the body for the time that the elements remain together.

For example, if you touch any extremely hot object, pain sends a message to the brain that one should stop touching that object immediately. Without pain, you could continue to grasp the object and would undergo severe physical damage to an appendage.

Do you really desire that your body forfeit all ability to experience pain if the consequences would include damaging the body regularly and severely as a result of having no means for sending signals to the brain to stop behaviors that are damaging the body?

If you must undergo severe nerve damage? If the body must be paralyzed in order to fulfill your desire to feel no pain? If you would have to undergo brain damage in order to fulfill your desire to experience a pain-free relative existence?

One old adage is, “Be careful what you wish for - you might get it.” The non-dual pointer is, “Stop wishing, period, especially if you have no actual clue at all about that for which you are wishing.”

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

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