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TWO KEY TRAITS OF THE MIND: CONFUSED AND CONFUSING

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TWO KEY TRAITS OF THE MIND: CONFUSED AND CONFUSING

“There is no such thing as mind. There are ideas . . . .” and “Abandon the wrong ideas, for they are false and obstruct your vision . . . .” and “The death of the mind is the birth of wisdom” and “To know that you are a prisoner of your mind - that you live in an imaginary world of your own creation - is the dawn of wisdom” and “I have no mind . . . .” 

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj 

Consciousness is rooted in the Absolute. The brain is rooted in the elements. The "mind" is rooted in wrong programming and faulty conditioning and perverted domestication and xenophobia-based acculturation and warped indoctrination and distorted brainwashing as well as learned ignorance and lies and concepts and ideas and superstitions and falsehoods (a.k.a., “beliefs”).

---Floyd Henderson

“Realization is nothing more than a process which results in a person being freed from believing in all learned ignorance.” 

--Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

"A dual-minded person is unstable in all ways."

--Yeshu'a 

TWO KEY TRAITS OF THE MIND: CONFUSED AND CONFUSING

(Continued from yesterday)

Comedian Garry Shandling may well have established himself as the wisest comedian to ever step onto a stage during his later years when he better understood that the use of the ego-defense mechanisms of ego and egotism and grandiosity and narcissism were among the drivers of human misery and suffering (along with learned ignorance and insanity which Maharaj discussed).

Shandling's journey from his earliest years was marked by suffering and guilt around the death of his brother and the insanity of his mother. Those marks lasted up to the final later years of his manifestation before he finally came to understand.

Prior to that, his confused mind was a fount of confusing beliefs which blocked him off from attained the levels of peace and contentment which he sought for decades.

His mother required professional treatment for her mental illness and he spent most of his years trying to encourage her to accept his willingness to pay for the long-term care she needed. She never did.

He never married, the effects of her behavior throughout his existence blocking off the ability required for him to be able to attach to woman in a close relationship. Speaking of his overwhelming levels of depression and his being single his entire life, he once said that “eHarmony just matched me up with a gun.”

After he took mahasamadhi, his friends and fans and admirers gathered together to hold a bon voyage memorial service. Many of his fellow comedians tried to keep it light, understanding that Garry would have preferred it that way.

Some suggested that he had crossed to the other side, to use Shandling’s term, where he hoped to be reunited with his brother whose existence ended at the age of thirteen when Garry was ten.

One of Shandling’s most serious instances of trauma happened when his older brother whom he loved so much was in pain and eventually died from cystic fibrosis.

The next serious instant of trauma happened when Garry found that his mother had lied to him when she said that his brother had moved to live with their grandma. Shandling suffered from years of longing to go his brother but was refused, of course; then, he discovered his mother had been lying to him all along.

One friend told Garry, “That woman’s a monster.” Shandling replied, “Well you’re seeing her on her best behavior.”

At the memorial service, Kevin Healon got the biggest laugh of the night when he said, “The irony of all this is that Garry is reunited with his mother for all eternity.”

And that opens the door to a discussion of more of the confused and confusing beliefs stored in the mind:

If there is a heaven or heaven-like place, what age are people therein? Do they remain the age they were at their demise? 

Would Garry's brother forever be 13? Would his mother forever be 88? Will Garry forever be 66 years old?

If insane, do they remain insane or does God restore then to sanity? 

If god can intervene to restore persons to a sane condition once there, why did god not choose to use that option for the insane on planet earth? Why make them wait and let them generate so much misery and suffering during the relative existence? 

So much confusion when one's mind have been filled with the nonsense rooted in magical thinking, yes?

[If interested, HBO is currently showing again “The Zen Diaries of Garry Shandling” from 2018. He found as much freedom from the mind as he could via Buddhism but he never reached the state of total freedom from the mind which the Maharaj version of nonduality endorses.]

Shandling’s openness and honesty about his mental condition - and how it came to be - gives insight into how the mind can both confused and confusing.

His arduous relief-from-the-mind-“journey” occupied both his dreams / nightmares as well as his every waking hour as well for decades.

Most humans will never recognize why they need to seek and what they need to seek, and the few who are invited to confront their trauma experiences throughout their childhoods irrationally rationalize their inaction in that regard with a “My parents were great” comment or “They did the best they could” comment.

[So did Hitler. He did the best he could. He wanted to kill every Jew on the planet, but he only got to 6,000,000 of them before the allies arrived to shut down his quest. Nowadays, Neo-Nazis and other racial supremacists have taken up the task where he left off. One such person recently murdered shoppers at a mall in Texas. Here he is, showing off his Nazi tattoos and his Texas tattoo:

Several confused and confusing minds have been exposed around that event.

The governor of Texas, who has received money from the NRA, said we need to focus on mental health issues, not on gun control issues. 

He’s the same guy who said that a 10-year-old pregnant child should nevertheless be refused an abortion even if raped. When challenged by a reporter, he said refusing to allow an abortion under such circumstances was going to become a moot issue because he was going to end all rapes in Texas.

Over 13000 rapes are reported annually in Texas, but since the estimate is that only about 16% of rapes are reported, that total in Texas is likely closer to 80000 a year. Get to work, Guv.

Meanwhile, confused and confusing minds prevail.

Tomorrow: The ego-defense mechanism of excessiveness.

To be continued.

Please enter into the silence of contemplation.

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Here, with those who are still driven to talk about "god," the "Son of god," the "Holy Spirit," "Buddha," "Krishna," etc., etc., etc., the invitation to them is to view those as verbs, not nouns.

THE EXPLANATION


If looked at as nouns, they point to illusions and are, therefore, a total waste of time to even discuss; if looked at as verbs which are resulting in certain sane but rare behaviors among humanity, then they are worthy of some attention during the relative existence.

Meaning? There are members of certain groups who say things such as "My concept of god in the past was of a weak god, an absentee god, A Santa Claus-type god, a mean, punishing, vindictive god, etc. Today, I am in close contact with a loving and caring god whom I worship and praise and glorify and give thanks to."

The reply to that usually goes like this: "If you are in contact with a god that wants to be worshipped and praised and glorified, then you're dealing with someone like yourself - a narcissist - and hanging out with narcissists will never bring an end to your narcissism (that narcissism evidenced by the fact that you think you are "godly").

Next, in the phrase 'loving and caring god,' any supposed god that truly had her or his act together would tell you that the totally irrelevant part of that phrase is 'god' and that the only part that is relevant is the "loving and caring" part.

"That is, a non-narcissistic their god / their goddess would say, "I care not an iota about being worshipped and praised and glorified by you or anyone else. How arrogant and insecure and needy would I have to be to want that? Forget the man-made, dreamed up noun 'god' and focus on the 'god as a verb' understanding and then go forth and let loving and caring be verbs - not adjectives - and let them generate the act of love and the act of caring and let those actions manifest through you." 

Yeshu'a (Jesus) and Pope John Paul II and Pope Francis were spot on:


"No one shall ever see 'the kingdom of heaven.' It is within"

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and earth shall fade away."

--Yeshu'a (Jesus)

and 


"Heaven and hell are not geographic places

but are states of mind, nothing more than

concepts dreamed up by men."

--Pope John Paul II 

"There is no hell."

--Pope Francis, the current pope

in an interview with journalist Eugenio Scalfari,

a writer used by the Pope to issue off the record

teachings which become a part of the Papal Magisterium.

[That said, would that the popes who have shown the courage to reject a core concept of their dogma - namely, "hell" - would find the additional courage required to question the very existence of their institution in light of the centuries-long cover-up of their history of raping children and in light of the mental and emotional and psychological scarring of billions of their members past and present.

And that need for courage also applies as questions need to be asked about why so many other sky cults are still being supported and allowed to continue to exist as well. When certain types of programming and conditioning have been shown to blind the masses, they should end. Will they? Not likely. Why?

Because what the masses think and say and do is most influenced by the international crime families which hold sway over the masses as criminals conduct their planet-wide operations. What are the major international crime families and which are the most influential and have the largest memberships?

The Mafia / La Cosa Nostra; the Catholic Church (with it 1.2 billion followers) whose Vatican Bank worked for decades with the Mafia while laundering mob earnings (for a 15% all-profit charge by the Bank); Protestant and Evangelical Churches (with over 1.2 billion followers) like the one I was raised in where the youth director molested and sexually assaulted young girls; big business which has long created environments in which people have been abused; powerful political bodies like the U.S. Congress, etc., etc., etc.)

With all of those crime families, neither the followers nor the leadership ever voluntarily step down or shut down their criminal activities. Be they gangs, organized crime families, religions, big business, politicians, etc., they all want control and they all want power and they all want money, and nothing internal will interfere with the driving forces at play.

The masses must demand that all those in charge must step down and their groups and institutions must shut down, and there's the real problem because the continuation of their crimes are enabled not as much by the people running such crime organizations as they are enabled by the masses of people who - wanting some perceived "payoff" - remain involved with them and give them money and support them and aid and abet the continued existence of those criminal enterprises and thus facilitate the ability of church criminals and political criminals and other types of criminals to continue to commit their crimes.] 

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